Author HopeLessLoner Posted February 6, 2015 Author Posted February 6, 2015 That exactly, try to save the friendship. Maybe waiting till I can set all emotions apart and really talk to her would be best?
sober and dry Posted February 6, 2015 Posted February 6, 2015 At least that, at best only when you are really healed. Remember that the objective behind this is protecting yourself from getting any more pain and/false hopes. Please remember that being a friend with an ex is something really hard because of all the residual feelings for them. In fact many people find it near impossible, as I do, I must confess.
Seeker12 Posted February 6, 2015 Posted February 6, 2015 Do not, right now anyway, convince yourself you are trying to save a friendship or can be friends. I have been there, done that, you will always have some lingering and remaining feelings, most people cannot pull that bar down from relationship to friendship. Whats worst is you can probably do more harm then good and your ex will probably jump in the opposite direction. Whats best is to take a step back, go NC and let yourself heal.
Author HopeLessLoner Posted February 6, 2015 Author Posted February 6, 2015 You're right and I know deep down I have no chance anymore. I guess its just the lingering memories of her asking me to never leave her or the promises of always being friends regardless whether or not our relationship worked that are making it hard to move on. It just feels impossible for the person I knew to no longer exists. But yall are right I do have to heal although its easier said than done.
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