Three1 Posted February 3, 2015 Posted February 3, 2015 She broke up with me a month ago and I've been in NC for 3 weeks but I was wondering what to think of a few things she said when she broke it off "Doesn't have to be permanent" " I'll realize I can forgive you eventually" " do you hate me?" (Crying) " I love you so much but I have to do what's best for me right now" " I don't want anyone else" " this will have a good outcome" "I'll talk when I'm ready" I feel like it's leading me on a bit or just her saying things cause she feels bad
Kinetica84 Posted February 3, 2015 Posted February 3, 2015 She broke up with me a month ago and I've been in NC for 3 weeks but I was wondering what to think of a few things she said when she broke it off "Doesn't have to be permanent" " I'll realize I can forgive you eventually" " do you hate me?" (Crying) " I love you so much but I have to do what's best for me right now" " I don't want anyone else" " this will have a good outcome" "I'll talk when I'm ready" I feel like it's leading me on a bit or just her saying things cause she feels bad Forget her dude. When someone is that messed up emotionally they will go down hard and take you with then. 1
Ieris Posted February 3, 2015 Posted February 3, 2015 Yep, people will say all sorts of things just so that they don't come across as a bad person. Don't believe a word she says and walk on... 1
Jimmyjackson Posted February 4, 2015 Posted February 4, 2015 She broke up with me a month ago and I've been in NC for 3 weeks but I was wondering what to think of a few things she said when she broke it off "Doesn't have to be permanent" " I'll realize I can forgive you eventually" " do you hate me?" (Crying) " I love you so much but I have to do what's best for me right now" " I don't want anyone else" " this will have a good outcome" "I'll talk when I'm ready" I feel like it's leading me on a bit or just her saying things cause she feels bad "I don't want anyone else" ....but she has dumped you...what does that tell you? Dumpers don't want you to hate them so they try and feed you information to keep them in a positive light. If someone "loves you so much" then they don't break up with you. 2
Satu Posted February 4, 2015 Posted February 4, 2015 Its over. Those two words are powerful. They can mean many things depending on how you look at them. 1
Author Three1 Posted February 4, 2015 Author Posted February 4, 2015 "I don't want anyone else" ....but she has dumped you...what does that tell you? Dumpers don't want you to hate them so they try and feed you information to keep them in a positive light. If someone "loves you so much" then they don't break up with you. i do believe she loved me so much but i hurt her (again) and she's sick of it and doesn't want to get hurt again.
Chi townD Posted February 4, 2015 Posted February 4, 2015 Dude, even in past posts you stated that how you hurt her didn't warrant being broken up with. So, it leaves me to conclude (and you too) that she was looking for ANY excuse to end it, And I'll bet that it was usually her that started most of the arguments. If what I'm saying is true, then it should start making sense to you. Keep strong with the NC and start making positive changes in your life. 1
Satu Posted February 4, 2015 Posted February 4, 2015 i do believe she loved me so much but i hurt her (again) and she's sick of it and doesn't want to get hurt again. You're not together anymore, so you don't need to worry about hurting her again. Your wish has been granted, and everything is fine.
d0nnivain Posted February 4, 2015 Posted February 4, 2015 If you hurt her in the past & she has finally broken up with you, it means she finally started thinking with her brain & not her heart. She may still have feelings for you but she has come to her senses & realized that you are bad for her. She is acting out of self preservation & getting herself out of a destructive situation. You used up all your 2nd chances & she's done. Leave her be because you have hurt her enough. 2
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