Zzyxx Posted February 3, 2015 Posted February 3, 2015 So my ex and I have been broken up for 6 months, but lived together for a year and were together for 2.5 years. Since we lived together in a foreign country that she is from, we had a lot of joint accounts, phone, gym ect, and we live in a very beauracratic rules and regulations country, so it took forever to finally get everything separated. Finally after months of not being able to go totally NC because of all this paper work we both had to deal with, I was free! I was finally able to do a two solid months of NC and it was awesome. Until the ****ing phone company informed me that they couldn't finally process separating our accounts until I talked to her about something. Honestly there was NO OTHER WAY. So I had to write her an e-mail about it and now feel super insecure and like crap. I basically started it out with a "Hey, hope you're well [insert business only info about the phone contract] and ended it by asking if she is planning to go to a mutual friends party we are both invited to. I only asked this because if she is going then I am not going to go, but I would really like to go if she doesn't plan on going. So now I think she's probably sitting there laughing at me and I can only wonder when I'll truly be allowed to do NC
Reels Posted February 4, 2015 Posted February 4, 2015 Not really a matter if she is laughing at this moment, it is more of a matter that you didn't ignored her. Maybe she will see it as a good thing.
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