unagedtiger Posted February 3, 2015 Posted February 3, 2015 (edited) So I've known this lady for a while (about 7 months, but haven't been meeting up frequently in groups). We're friends on fb. Lately we started to talk more when we ran into each other in group settings. She frequently goes on business trips and I didn't get to exchange numbers before she took off for last trip. So via fb, I asked to exchange numbers and catch up sometimes. She did give me her number but she said she probably won't have time to talk during the trip. (Hint #1, if she was interested, she'd make time to talk, right?). Secondly, a few days later, I text to see if she's back from the trip. She just kindly replies that she won't be back until the weekend after. No "how are you" to continue to conversation. So (Hint #2, if she was interested, she'd continue to conversation via text, right?). Or are hints #1 and #2 not valid if she was really super busy during the trip? (She is in marketing for a company based in Chicago, hence the trip). She is not super conservative or anything but not trying to lead me on. I don't know if I'm interested in her fully and she has no idea if I'm interested in her at any level. Everyone agree? Edited February 3, 2015 by unagedtiger
oberkeat Posted February 3, 2015 Posted February 3, 2015 OP, you've only ever asked this girl two things: "when are you able to talk?" and "when is trip done?" That's it. You need to be more assertive, get up the nerve and actually ask her on a date. If she says no and doesn't counter-offer, that's you're best evidence that she isn't interested in you romantically. The way you've been playing this so far isn't getting you anywhere.
Author unagedtiger Posted February 3, 2015 Author Posted February 3, 2015 OP, you've only ever asked this girl two things: "when are you able to talk?" and "when is trip done?" That's it. You need to be more assertive, get up the nerve and actually ask her on a date. If she says no and doesn't counter-offer, that's you're best evidence that she isn't interested in you romantically. The way you've been playing this so far isn't getting you anywhere. What does "OP" stand for? Oh haha, you think I didn't ask out far enough yet?
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