My Cake.....

[sandylee1]

I haven't read all the replies but I don't know how you could be in this affair for so long.

 

Does your AP not want more of you? Is he happy with the status quo?

 

Do you want to be with your AP? What do you get from the AP and not your H? I'd it's the six, can you not spice it up?

 

Is this guy really worth risking your marriage?

If so then you should leave your husband, because it really is unfair to him. Thinking he has a loving wife and all the while she's been in this affair.

 

Have you thought of Std's? You may not be the only person your AP sleeps with.

 

Just imagine how your husband, your children, your family and friends would feel if they found out. Even with such a wonderful husband you continue to cheat on him. You obviously have no respect for him.

 

Have you considered IC to help?

Maybe you can figure out what you want and gain the courage to leave your H, so he can really be happy.

[William]

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