mysticalstar Posted April 1, 2005 Posted April 1, 2005 Hey everyone! Got a relationship question. I've been with my guy for almost 6 months now and I was just wondering about the "L" word. We havent said it to each other yet...but today which is April Fools Day he said, "I love you....April Fools." I was thinking what an ass! I guess I still don't know if i'm to the "love" point yet but i'm feeling it more and more everyday. I've almost let it slip a few times and said "I love you" to him, but I really don't want to be the one to say it first. I dont know. Its just getting to that point in our relationship and I sometimes ever wonder if he will ever say it to me. What do you think? Thanks so much:)
agnf666 Posted April 1, 2005 Posted April 1, 2005 Something tells me that he knows that he has yet to day it. So, I can't believe he would say that on April Fools Day. I would have to say something to that remark. What a jerkoff??? What did you say to him after he said that???
laRubiaBonita Posted April 1, 2005 Posted April 1, 2005 tell him you have decided he may do you in the arse today......April fools!
agnf666 Posted April 1, 2005 Posted April 1, 2005 I think if he ask you you want to have sex or anything to do with sex just say april fools. Then maybe he will get the hint!
clynn Posted April 1, 2005 Posted April 1, 2005 Originally posted by laRubiaBonita tell him you have decided he may do you in the arse today......April fools!
paradox Posted April 1, 2005 Posted April 1, 2005 I feel for you. Im in the same position. Seems like he'l never say it..and he didn't joke about it either. With you I don't know maybe he's scared to say it, so he decided to say it as a joke and see how u feel as well
Author mysticalstar Posted April 2, 2005 Author Posted April 2, 2005 Thanks everyone so much. I guess i'm just getting pretty damn frustrated. Not necessarily with the whole "Love" thing, but with other things too. Another thing that has been on my mind and that I am getting way sick of is the whole sleep over thing. We go to the same college and don't live too far from each other. On the weekends I like it when we spend the nights together, and for him it just seems like its a chore for him and that he lets me stay because I want to not because he wants me to. For example I stayed last night because were were drinking and this morning he was like "if we drink again tonight, you're not staying here." and then he laughed. Well I was pretty fricken pissed even though he may have been sarcastic. I dont know maybe I am being too over emotional about this. I mean I am his girlfriend...shouldn't he want me to spend the nights with him? Wow it feels so much better to get this stuff out! Thanks:)
paradox Posted April 2, 2005 Posted April 2, 2005 He seems to take you forgranted and doesn't seem all that much in love
Mustique Posted April 2, 2005 Posted April 2, 2005 he will say "the L-word" to you when he feels that way. Remember we are talking about men here. Do you know what love means to him? Maybe he's still figureing that out. I believe, if you give him time, he'll learn to love you and i'm sure he'll tell you. wish you luck! and remember, who says it first doesnt matter at all. =)
clynn Posted April 2, 2005 Posted April 2, 2005 I dunno. I don't like the way he is talking you to. Saying nasty stuff and then laughing it off? Like I love, just fooling. MEAN. Then, if we drink again tonight you're not staying here. Laugh, Laugh. MEAN. If he wants more time alone, and some more space. . . . I think that is okay, certainly. But this is NOT the way to be communicating it. Not at all. Tell him you need a bit of a break. That'll either smarten him up. Or else it'll give you a break to know you don't want him either. IMHO.
Author mysticalstar Posted April 2, 2005 Author Posted April 2, 2005 Thanks Clynn and everyone else who has replied! Today I am starting to give him more space and hopefully that will wisen him up. If not, i'm going to have to break it off because I can't go on feeling like this. If he wants to do something with me tonight i'm leaving it up to him to call, and if he doesn't, i'm going out with my friends tonight and letting myself have a great time. I'm going to start putting in to this relationship what he puts into it and maybe then he will start giving a little more. At least I hope so because I do want to work things out. Thanks everyone.
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