in a relationship but unsatisfied!!!!

[kendahke]

we actually didnt know i was pregnant when we started dating. he asked me out officially 10 days before my missed period. go figure.

 

OK, I'm going to do just that:

 

so this guy and i have been together intimately for over a year now. only been officially dating for about 4 months.

 

So, while you're in this FWB thing with him, you were having unprotected sex with him for 8 months prior? Getting pregnant really was the least of your worries here.

 

And what does "asked me out officially" mean? He never took you on a proper date until 10 days before you missed your period?

[Teraskas]

Haven't been in such a situation myself, nor do I hope to ever be...but the most applicable advice I can give here is: Ditch this tool of a guy.

There are countless others who can take his place. Not to mention minus the snide comments and the abuse which will only get worse over time.

[elaine567]

What concerns me here, is that this porn addicted man is beating you up mentally, he is kicking your self esteem to death, he is head butting your very being and strangling your right of existence; yet YOUR main worry is the lack of sex and that you are unsatisfied...

 

Contact your family and friends and get out NOW. This is only going to get worse and is no environment to bring up a baby in

[amaysngrace]

You need to call a woman's shelter and get yourself some counseling TODAY.

 

If you two have a daughter would it ever be okay for him to make her feel the way that he makes you feel...like you aren't good enough?

 

That baby isn't his exGF either. What if that baby grows up and doesn't have a big butt? Will he put her down?

 

And don't even get me started on him dictating how she will be able to dress when she's a teen.

 

You are in an emotionally abusive relationship with a control freak. Please contact your local woman's shelter and get the help you need to learn how to be your own best friend.

 

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