HeBrokeMyHeart Posted February 3, 2015 Posted February 3, 2015 Okay so me and my ex had a very bad break up and we both went into NC, in the beginning he played games of trying to make me jealous, rubbing things in, getting his friends to check up on me. I ignored it all and got on with my life not giving him the satisfaction of getting a raise out of me. He finally cooled off. 2 months go by and we still haven't talked. This weekend I was out in town & received a FaceTime from him, drunk and oblivious I answers. He was there with his friends at a pub or something. I stuck my fingers up at them and hung up. (Was pretty chuffed that I looked pretty good too) he then proceeded to call me another 4 times before my phone died. I woke up the next morning to a message from him saying "hey sorry Callum (a mutual friend) wanted to FaceTime you (complete lie) hope your well x' I toyed with the idea of texting him back most of the day & after some decision I decided to be civil, after all I would eventually have to spend time with this guy as we have the same social circle. I had been lucky do far not to bump into him. I sent a short message saying 'fair enough. I'm great thanks you?' I have received nothing back. I'm not all that fussed he didn't, it's most probably for the best. It just plays on my mind for why after 2 months he reaches out & then goes cold again. What is his game? And what is he trying to achieve? I've moved on and have recently just met this guy I actually like, so trying to get back with my ex is never going to be an option. My eyes have been opened up after being blindsided by my emotions. I just need some closure on what the hell this was for, I thought this chapter had been closed between us & now he's gone and reopened it & for what?
Cali408 Posted February 3, 2015 Posted February 3, 2015 Don't read too much into it. My question is why you haven't removed him from your contacts? If you had, it wouldn't have happened. Drunk with buddies busting his chops, someone hit connect. Nothing more nothing less. You're doing great, keep moving forward
mightycpa Posted February 3, 2015 Posted February 3, 2015 You don't actually get closure until the day you don't give a rat's ass anymore. You might be farther along, but your reaction, wanting to know WHY, says that you're not quite there yet.
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