Davidcee Posted February 3, 2015 Posted February 3, 2015 My ex gf told my friend that she doesn't feel the spark whenever she sees me working out at the gym and it's been months since we hung out.. We had an amazing relationship and broke up because she needed to focus on school and also her future and didn't have time for a relationship.. I'm doing Nc and I think she's doing the same thing and I feel like it's harder to get her back because she has a friend who also came out of a long relationship and they both started to hangout a lot. I just want to know what I can do to get the spark back? I feel like we still have it but we haven't hungout so she says she doesn't feel it anymore. Can someone please help!
Gaeta Posted February 3, 2015 Posted February 3, 2015 Your ex-girlfriend told you the spark is gone You do not spend time together Yet you know the spark is still there? Hon, it's wishful thinking. It's over. You are desperate and hanging on to some imaginary spark. I am sorry. 1
angel.eyes Posted February 3, 2015 Posted February 3, 2015 You feel the spark. She doesn't. So it's over. That's what prompted the breakup. She's now moved on and has started hanging out with someone else. You need to accept the end and move on too.
d0nnivain Posted February 3, 2015 Posted February 3, 2015 NC is never going to cause the spark to return. Communicating & going on dates & being romantic brings the spark back. She is already your EX GF. rather than wasting your time trying to get her back, you need to be focus on starting a different fire.
Diezel Posted February 3, 2015 Posted February 3, 2015 How about you get a new spark with someone else? That'd be WAY easier. 2
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