How to know if he misses me?

[KindlyUnspoken23]

Is there a way to know if a guy misses you without them saying it?

 

We spent all of January together (give or take a couple days). At the end of the month, he found out he had to move to his dad's much earlier than planned. He doesnt even have all his stuff there, and has been staying on the couch. He also has an issue with his ankle and has an appointment this week to find out whether or not he needs surgery. Last week we had a "blizzard" and we texted a lot, and he told me he'd love to have me over his dad's house to be snowed in with him. We had a good time those two days. I did try to talk to him about us, but he wasn't in the mindset. He told me he's not keeping me on a string, and not to be worried about him finding another girl. However, he couldn't predict what was going to happen with us because he's worried about so much right now. I left Wednesday morning. We saw each other Thursday at an event, and txtd a bit & gave each other cute looks back and forth, but that was it.

 

I haven' talked to him pretty much all weekend and I have had a lot going on too. However, I miss him so much it hurts. We haven't gone this long not seeing each other in a month. I told him in a text today that I missed him and he didn't say anything. I called him tonight to ask if we could get together this week, and all he said when I said how I wanted to spend time together was "I know". Is there a way to know if he really is just worried about the move and his ankle issues, or did something change and does he not even miss me at all?

[adiamond]

I would back off, give it some time and ride it out. Usually if a man misses you, he will want to talk to you. He will want to call you/ or video call you if you guys aren't driving distance to each other and text you everyday. Wait for him to initiate plans with you. If he misses you but has been busy, he will initiate plans with you right after his work is done.