jordjones Posted February 2, 2015 Posted February 2, 2015 Hey everyone, Been super NC for 11 days after breakup from 2 year 2 month relationship. She has contacted me a few times via text, but I have never responded once. Last night I ordered a Favor at a Super Bowl Party. I was drunk and apparently the Favor went to my ex's house (we usually ordered food there). Sorted it out with the driver and eventually got the food. She texted me a sad face. Then texted, "That was so strange and sad." Then texted, "I miss you." Then texted, "I'm moving in a week and will go through everything, pack your stuff, and bring it by your place." I didn't respond to anything. I'm doing well. It hurts still, but I am working out, going out, and even ordered this tooth whitening kit that has made my smile so darn pirdy, lol. I feel bad about not responding to any of her texts (there has been around 15 or so since the break). However, this is where a little age and experience (I'm 29) comes to one's advantage. Girls that want you back will at the minimum ALWAYS indicate that they want to meet up. Even then, she could just be playing games; but unless she initiates a face-to-face meet up there is zero use in responding whatsoever... So, should you respond? Hell nah. 3
WonderWoman911 Posted February 3, 2015 Posted February 3, 2015 So I guess you answered your own question,lol...... And lol at "so darn pirdy",lol....
Elle1975 Posted February 3, 2015 Posted February 3, 2015 I can only imagine if you had answered her sad face/I miss you text, only to receive "I'm packing up your stuff, will drop it off". Now your next step, I say have someone other than yourself at your home to receive your things.. I don't recall someone doing so good at NC, usually people always answer something, anything.
Author jordjones Posted February 3, 2015 Author Posted February 3, 2015 I got my cleaning lady coming by tomorrow to separate the "guy things from the girl things..." poco ingles Will drop her stuff of at her doorstep the following day with no note. Hopefully she takes the clue and will deliver my goods in the same manner. The only reason I have been so good at NC is experience. You can look at my threads from over three years ago and see how depressingly a tried with another girl. The fact of the matter is that once he/she says "I don't feel it..." then you have to feel the pain of making yourself as scarce as possible, work out, teeth bleaching, and a cosmetic makeover. Dip into savings a bit if you have to and buy yourself some new clothes. It will hurt. It is hurting me now...but I know I'm working through it as hard as I can. DO NOT FOLLOW YOUR GUT. FOLLOW THE NC PATH. MAKE IT YOUR BIBLE. He/she will almost always, from my experience, reach out. Don't take any bait less than a face-to-face initiated entirely by them. 1
Cali408 Posted February 3, 2015 Posted February 3, 2015 great work, it gets easier every day. No contact is so hard when you don't want it to end. But it needs to be done, for yourself. In your situation, you just had had enough. Done with the relationship. That makes it a little easier. Great discipline You're setting a good example for others. Logic
Ieris Posted February 3, 2015 Posted February 3, 2015 I remember when I used to want my ex to message me more but since the break up all the message box texts are grey (from him). Just rows and rows of it and no green ones from me, who is the needy one now?! XP You keep up the good work jordjones and if you ever bump into her further down the line you shine those pearly whites in her face and show that you can be happy without her! x
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