galaxys5 Posted February 2, 2015 Posted February 2, 2015 (edited) ill try and make this short as possible.i met a girl on facebook and we hit it off.The first 2-3 months were amazing i would take her places she would have tons of fun etc. she would always tell me she loves me that im the best thing that happend to her etc.keep in mind this whole time i had a gut instinct that some **** was going wrong..so all this time i start searching through her phone..i find pictures of her ex boyfreind..keep in mind he is 33 years old with 3 kids and a drug dealer..and she is 21 years old...he came to her house in the very beg of the relationship and dropped off 2 dinner plates at her front door... i didnt think much of it other then they were just going out a month prior or shes been ****ing him behind my back for the past couple times we were hanging out..i told him get the **** outta here and he left.he tried contacting her through phone several more times throughout the 6 months.so one day im scrolling through her phone and i see a picture of me and it says damn me and (me) make a good couple but too bad hes a worthless piece of ****..i instantly threw this up in her face as i didnt give a ****ing **** i am a VERY upfrount person no time for games...when she found out i was going through her phone she started to delete ALL her convos except stupid things just what she WANTED me to see so little by little i keep going through her texts and find minor ****..even though i wouldnt consider this minor i was blinded by love..she would always tell me how faithfull she is and she would NEVER cheat on me and that she hated her ex boyfreind and hes a huge loser and wouldnt dare get back with him..she had a infatuation of watching movies of cheating lovers etc and not only that she would constantly think i was cheating...so anyway were in the middle of the relationship and i start to realize the girl i thought that was so good who when i first met me was shaking in anxiety is turning out to be quite the lying whore...so i lost my job about 6 weeks ago but i have been actively looking for a job the whole time..during this time she got really bored because quite honestly i couldnt fufill her needs as far as entertainment..so she kept telling me shes depressed and all she wants is molly (a drug) and i tell her i dont want to take part in that **** im a natural bodybuilder i dont even drink.. so eventually the fights begin and she gets cold..she begins distancing her self from me..so eventually we got in 1 final fight and then we made up..she was fine the next day..but something strange happened..she told me she didnt feel well that night which is a load of ****..and that shes going to bed at 830pm...she usally goes to bed 1am for the past 6 months lol..so i wake up and she never texted me..she usually texts me i love u good morning..so i text her wtf did u go to work? she immediately gives me 2 weird stories about her bladder hurts LOL and her sister got hit by a drunk driver at 10am LOL..she then begins to tell me we cant do this anymore she needs to get her health and living situation and all that straightened out..so im like lol k so were done? so we broke up and i text her are u seeing anyone behind my back or did u cheat on me? she tells me (6) hours later shes going to her sisters and that she cant talk shes not in the mood...sunday she texts me saying i never cheated on you..i call her and i say i want ****ing closure right now are you seeing anyone...pause for 15 seconds...uh yea...who are u seeing? MY EX...is he in the house right now..yeah hes in the living room..she sounds banged up out of her mind like she was high all damn nite long getting sex from him on molly she sounds nothing like the girl i know.. pretty sure the drugs have ruined her even though when i was with her she was clean...she then tells me she was with him 2 years and its more then we could ever have..i say 6 months is nothing to u? she goes no hes my first love..so your first love is a 33 year old man with 3 kids who arent urs and sells drugs for a living and u are 21 years old? ok good luck..man i feel like i have gotten used and abused..i have figured out all i was was a rebound..but why would she leave me for a piece of garbage like that? does she think she will have a marriage with a 33 year old man with kids that arent hers? is she just using him for the drugs and her lease is up in a month in her apartment so she was also scared about that...i ended it in a very mature way....but i feel like shes going to come running back to me once she realizes how stupid of a decesion she has made..i will obviously not take her back but i just need some insight on this..its like nothing i have dealt with before. what a devious KUNT what do you guys think will she come back? she is doing no contact and deff sounds like she wants nothing to do with me..she actually sounds pissed at me for some reason lol Edited February 2, 2015 by galaxys5
towardthefuture Posted February 2, 2015 Posted February 2, 2015 thoughts.................. Sounds like you dodged a bullet. Did she leave him or did he leave her before? If he left her you were almost definitely just a rebound. 1
Author galaxys5 Posted February 2, 2015 Author Posted February 2, 2015 Sounds like you dodged a bullet. Did she leave him or did he leave her before? If he left her you were almost definitely just a rebound. she left him...what do u mean i dodged a bullet as in she did me a favor dumping me? im not no spring chicken lol i saw the dump coming but i just wanted sex lol
Nolan 93 Posted February 2, 2015 Posted February 2, 2015 thoughts.................. Bro It happened to me back in November, ****ing went back to her ex. Idk she just ran into him at the mall and bam confused on who she wants. who knows maybe they both will come back at some point in our life. Do you want her back? I mean she left for a drug dealer, who probably is barely making it. He has three kids, and she says my first love????? hahah what the hell, he's ten years older and ****. I think she is using him for free drugs man. Your a natural bodybuilder, you can do better bro!! **** I was fit before I met my gf and I stopped working out, never doing something stupid like that again. After my break up been in the gym everyday getting back on track. No matter how you look at it 6 months is 6 months, I was in mine for 11 months even worse ha. But so what you have two years with the drug guy, don't mean **** if he treated her like SHhhhhhit ...right? But they are young bro, I want mine back but not until she works on herself, one day they will regret being stupid.
Author galaxys5 Posted February 2, 2015 Author Posted February 2, 2015 Bro It happened to me back in November, ****ing went back to her ex. Idk she just ran into him at the mall and bam confused on who she wants. who knows maybe they both will come back at some point in our life. Do you want her back? I mean she left for a drug dealer, who probably is barely making it. He has three kids, and she says my first love????? hahah what the hell, he's ten years older and ****. I think she is using him for free drugs man. Your a natural bodybuilder, you can do better bro!! **** I was fit before I met my gf and I stopped working out, never doing something stupid like that again. After my break up been in the gym everyday getting back on track. No matter how you look at it 6 months is 6 months, I was in mine for 11 months even worse ha. But so what you have two years with the drug guy, don't mean **** if he treated her like SHhhhhhit ...right? But they are young bro, I want mine back but not until she works on herself, one day they will regret being stupid. bro no way do i want that lying cheating slut back..i want her to come crawling back though just so i can make her feel like ****..not my mention im scared i have aids lol what a mistake i made lol i learned a lesson do no trust ANYBODY she used me up she ran MAD game on me lol
michael-034 Posted February 2, 2015 Posted February 2, 2015 You are acting really immature man. What are you trying to get at? You want her to come crawling back so you can hurt her? I mean what is that. That makes you just as bad as her.. I think this forum is more for the poor fellows hurting than a guy like you just wanting revenge, and talking all big and bad like the way you do and basically laughing at the advice others give you.. She screwed you over, so screw her but let it be, keep your respect..don't go looking for no revenge, or waiting for to come back.. that's pathetic.. Be the better man, don't be like her..
Author galaxys5 Posted February 2, 2015 Author Posted February 2, 2015 You are acting really immature man. What are you trying to get at? You want her to come crawling back so you can hurt her? I mean what is that. That makes you just as bad as her.. I think this forum is more for the poor fellows hurting than a guy like you just wanting revenge, and talking all big and bad like the way you do and basically laughing at the advice others give you.. She screwed you over, so screw her but let it be, keep your respect..don't go looking for no revenge, or waiting for to come back.. that's pathetic.. Be the better man, don't be like her.. she needs a lesson not to play with a mans emotions or lie.
Ducktape Posted February 2, 2015 Posted February 2, 2015 she needs a lesson not to play with a mans emotions or lie. Because you're a saint? The guy who's so insecure that he needs to go through his girlfriend's phone throughout the relationship, from the start? If you were that great of a boyfriend, don't you think leaving her with her choices, is the best of lessons? Needing revenge, just shows how insecure you are with yourself, just like how you went through her phone.
Author galaxys5 Posted February 2, 2015 Author Posted February 2, 2015 Because you're a saint? The guy who's so insecure that he needs to go through his girlfriend's phone throughout the relationship, from the start? If you were that great of a boyfriend, don't you think leaving her with her choices, is the best of lessons? Needing revenge, just shows how insecure you are with yourself, just like how you went through her phone. lol i went through her phone for the exact reasons i posted in the original story turns out i was right about everything so how does that make me insecure? that makes me smart and u stupid lol
Ducktape Posted February 2, 2015 Posted February 2, 2015 It's not because your hunch was correct that it becomes legitimate to run through someone's personal things. As for the stupid comment, I don't mind being the stupid one. But tell me, having doubts about the fidelity of your partner, confirming those doubts and not do anything about it, what does that make you? Sticking to someone who calls you a "worthless piece of ****", what does that make you? Thought so.
Author galaxys5 Posted February 2, 2015 Author Posted February 2, 2015 It's not because your hunch was correct that it becomes legitimate to run through someone's personal things. As for the stupid comment, I don't mind being the stupid one. But tell me, having doubts about the fidelity of your partner, confirming those doubts and not do anything about it, what does that make you? Sticking to someone who calls you a "worthless piece of ****", what does that make you? Thought so. a guy getting laid
Ducktape Posted February 2, 2015 Posted February 2, 2015 a guy getting laid Who ends up on a broken heart forum, trying to hide his pain and misery behind his revenge plans.
Nolan 93 Posted February 2, 2015 Posted February 2, 2015 This is why I always just had FWB growing up hahahaha
ExpatInItaly Posted February 2, 2015 Posted February 2, 2015 You're wasting far too much mental energy on someone who just wasn't that into you. Imagining her coming crawling back to you so you can hurt her is an incredible waste of your time and mental energy, and indicates that you're still too invested. She's immature, and the relationship clearly wasn't a very good one. Time for you to move on and meet new women. That would be a much more productive use of your time.
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