haga455 Posted February 2, 2015 Posted February 2, 2015 I've been friends with one of my sisters friends for sometime now, we hang out every so often and i never attempted to make a move on her because i felt like it was a strictly friends vibe.. But as i started hanging out with her more often i started naturally developing some feelings for her which i don't think she knows about, she always seems to laugh at my lame jokes and i pretend to laugh at hers.. she brushes my arm, plays with her hair and does many of the subtle moves to indicate that there is some chemistry going on.. I'm paranoid that i am misreading her signals and i'm scared to make a move or open upto her out of fear of ruining the friendship we have going and creating awkward feeling situations whenever we are out with mutual friends... After we grabbed dinner the other night i decided to balls it abit and link arms with her, we ended up walking around for 3 hours and just talking and each time we would stop for something or i'd move my arm i could feel her clutching onto it... Lately it's been bothering me more that i have these feelings for her that are bottled up, i wan't to make a move on her or indirectly indicate that i am interested in/have feelings for her but i'm not sure about the correct way to approach it... She exited a 5 year marriage around a year ago so i assume she is still in some sort of a fragile and lonely place mentally and i can tell that she is need of someone who can support her and spend time with her.. I appreciate any input/advice from anyone who has been in a similar situation or advice on how i should proceed. If you need anymore backstory info let me know Thanks
d0nnivain Posted February 2, 2015 Posted February 2, 2015 First how does your sister feel about you possibly dating one of her friends? If she's OK with it, just go for it. From your post I initially thought you two were very young / inexperienced. I was shocked to read that the woman in Q just got out of a 5 year marriage. If she was married when you go the friend vibe, that explains things. Now that she's single, she is free to explore.
Author haga455 Posted February 2, 2015 Author Posted February 2, 2015 First how does your sister feel about you possibly dating one of her friends? If she's OK with it, just go for it. From your post I initially thought you two were very young / inexperienced. I was shocked to read that the woman in Q just got out of a 5 year marriage. If she was married when you go the friend vibe, that explains things. Now that she's single, she is free to explore. I'm not sure how my sister would feel but i don't think she would be happy, that's one of the obstacles.. I definetely felt a change in our vibe since she got divorced.. I'm just worried because i know our friendship will not be the same if she does not have the same feelings for me, i can see some signs of interest but i may be misreading..
deathandtaxes Posted February 3, 2015 Posted February 3, 2015 You walked around arm in arm for over three hours? Hello!! That's a date!! Now ask her out again and don't give a flip for what your sister thinks. It will work. Or it won't.
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