melbell38 Posted February 2, 2015 Posted February 2, 2015 So here's my story- I dated a wonderful man long distance for close to a year and a half. We met online and never formally met in person due to certain circumstances. Things moved very quickly at the beginning and we were saying "I love you" within weeks. We dated for a year and a half, as said above and we were very much in love. I loved him with all I had and wanted to spend the rest of my life with him and he felt the same about me. But, I always had doubts. I pushed it off to be the fact that we'd never met but the doubts kept growing and one day they overcame me. I couldn't shake the feeling that this relationship wasn't right for me and so I broke up with him. The decision was very hard for me and I cried non stop. I had such a hard time with the breakup that I agreed to get back together with him. We stayed together for about a month and then that same feeling came back and overcame me once again so I ended it for the second time. We are currently still broken up and this time it has been much easier for me, but still many tears have been shed. We talk occasionally but the amount we speak is lessening and that hurts me. Here is where I'm at now- I feel as if something is missing from my life. I feel as if it is him. I feel that he is not the person for me and I can't deny that feeling. I want to love him the way I used to. I want to spend the rest of my life with him as I wanted to before. I want things to be right but they just aren't for me. I can't seem to come to terms with this, and I can't seem to shake the feelings of loneliness, emptiness, confusion and the feeling that something is just missing from my life. I've asked to see a therapist because I feel as if I just can't handle life on my own. Other than this, What can I do? Thank you.
Satu Posted February 2, 2015 Posted February 2, 2015 I feel as if something is missing from my life. I feel as if it is him. I feel that he is not the person for me and I can't deny that feeling. I want to love him the way I used to. I want to spend the rest of my life with him as I wanted to before. I want things to be right but they just aren't for me. I can't seem to come to terms with this, and I can't seem to shake the feelings of loneliness, emptiness, confusion and the feeling that something is just missing from my life. I've asked to see a therapist because I feel as if I just can't handle life on my own. Other than this, What can I do? Thank you. What is missing is a real person who is actually physically present with you in the real world.
MidnightinMadrid Posted February 2, 2015 Posted February 2, 2015 I went through this falling hard for a guy I never met Big time,meaning once he met someone locally I went through three therapists to get over him. Oh he's still with this person,but now I have bigger fish to fry going through changes,now he's the one calling me constantly,trying to help me through my problem. It came to the point that I don't care whether I hear from him or not,it took years,it will take some time for you. Do your best not to contact him,let him miss you and see what he is missing and take care of yourself. Know that you deserve much more. Who knows,you may not care and he will call you as a friend,or more,don't matter,look after yourself,it will take time
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