4everangel Posted February 1, 2015 Posted February 1, 2015 (edited) Relationship dnt want to lose him I'm 35 f my bf of 1yr is 39, we live an hour away but for the last yesr have been able to have a great trlationship. Lately I find him diffrent and a bit distant when I ask questions he says why ask so many questions. He is not one to open up much and I like to know so we are on the same page. I trust him and have Fallin in love with him and he knows my feelings , we spend holidays with his family when we are together it's great. We met on a dating site lately when I tell him what I'm feeling or sense he doesn't respond or if I ask a question for instance is there something wrong cause he seems distant he responds with why I asking question relax or why with the question. I don't want to lose him he is great I love him unconditional . What do I do not to lose him Edited February 4, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
Gaeta Posted February 1, 2015 Posted February 1, 2015 How different is he that you are in such a panic? 1
Satu Posted February 1, 2015 Posted February 1, 2015 Just be yourself and let him be himself. Thats all you need to do. 1
devilish innocent Posted February 2, 2015 Posted February 2, 2015 Only he knows what's going through his mind. Worrying about it will not help with anything. The worst case scenario is that you are losing him. There's nothing you can do about that if he won't talk to you. Just know that you will be okay regardless of what happens. 1
Author 4everangel Posted February 2, 2015 Author Posted February 2, 2015 Thank you all for your advice and your right need to give him space , not ask he still texts and says we will continue to and still do a lot of things together. Hang out ect.,, just to much pressure for a relationship . I'm confused cause he never sd or made it look like Under pressure . I never asked for anything from him other then to see him when our schedules allowed he spoke of future dates and trips , I never told him dnt do this or don't do that ....heart breaking we fit right together and always respected are relationship was perfect didn't see this coming
Author 4everangel Posted February 3, 2015 Author Posted February 3, 2015 From my previous post my 1 year relationship was what I thought great ,but my bf felt pressure and backed off. Saying we could continue to hang out and do things , my heart is breaking fell in love with him, spice been trying to give home space not to lose him completely .the thing I'm facing and not sure how to handle so I dnt lose him is he will txt I will respond then another txt and then nothing I'm left hanging . I'm not sure how to act or respond I dnt want lose him more than I feel I am. All I have is great memories of our year together. Thank you for the advice
Gaeta Posted February 4, 2015 Posted February 4, 2015 Thank you all for your advice and your right need to give him space , not ask he still texts and says we will continue to and still do a lot of things together. Hang out ect.,, just to much pressure for a relationship . I'm confused cause he never sd or made it look like Under pressure . I never asked for anything from him other then to see him when our schedules allowed he spoke of future dates and trips , I never told him dnt do this or don't do that ....heart breaking we fit right together and always respected are relationship was perfect didn't see this coming If he feels too much pressure to be in a relationship with you after 1 year dating then you are not the one for him, as simple as that. You can act cool all you want it's not going to bring him back. He's not feeling it with you. This man is very unfair with you. He knows you love him, he does not want to give you a relationship but he ask you to stand by for when he's available and inclined to see you. You are obviously very sad and unhappy with the little crumbs he is throwing at you. Why do you accept such a treatment? You are 35, you are a grown woman, don't you want a real relationship with a real man? You have given 1 year into this and all you get is 'don't pressure me'! I would break up. 1
Author 4everangel Posted February 4, 2015 Author Posted February 4, 2015 Thank I hear what you are telling me. It's just that for the first time in my life I have fallen in love . I went thru a lot in my past and for someone to except me for me and do and share all we did just hurts . I would give my life for him as crazy as it may sound . I wish he would look back and let himself feel what I feel thank you .
Recommended Posts