BrandonWard Posted February 1, 2015 Posted February 1, 2015 Hi, this is my original thread explaining in somewhat short terms. https://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/511734-girlfriend-5-years-left-me-one-week-ago#post6116915 My question is should i break NC on valentines day? I've been in NC for 2 weeks now, And my ex's friend has told me she seems like she has some regrets. But heard nothing from her yet.
whichwayisup Posted February 1, 2015 Posted February 1, 2015 Hi, this is my original thread explaining in somewhat short terms. https://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/511734-girlfriend-5-years-left-me-one-week-ago#post6116915 My question is should i break NC on valentines day? I've been in NC for 2 weeks now, And my ex's friend has told me she seems like she has some regrets. But heard nothing from her yet. NO!!! If she wants to contact you, she will. Do not listen to someone else who says your ex has some regrets. That doesn't mean she wants you back. IF she wants to sort stuff out and/or talk to you, she will contact you. 3
SycamoreCircle Posted February 1, 2015 Posted February 1, 2015 Has there ever been a time when someone asks, "should I break NC?" and the answer is yes? It would need to involve hot coals and broken glass. 2
dyna85 Posted February 1, 2015 Posted February 1, 2015 Hells no. Don't do it. Valentine's day is just another day. If you break it, prepare to go back to step one of nc... the most fun time of all. Don't let V-day become D-day. 1
Jessie1231 Posted February 1, 2015 Posted February 1, 2015 Definitely not. I completely understand wanting to - my last break up was a month before Christmas, and my birthday is six days after Christmas. I broke down and contacted him on my birthday because I kept thinking he HAS to want to contact me on my birthday right? Wrong. I didn't hear back from him and it seemed to start over the whole process. I'm feeling much better about it now and no longer have an urge to contact him, so I'm feeling ok about Valentine's day coming up. I do understand the need to contact on holidays, but trust me that it will be something you'll regret. If she does want to speak to you, you'll hear from her. 1
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