atsiValuhC Posted February 1, 2015 Posted February 1, 2015 (edited) Met a girl online, lives close, grew up in same suburb of San Diego, she's 27 I'm 31. She's a director of a retail shop, works a lot. I just started a business and also work a lot. Met online, starting talking around Christmas. Took a week or so to get her to text me once I'd offered my number. Texted and had a phone call through the holidays. She went to Mexico, I went to Mexico, and we finally met up the week I got back, Thursday (10 days ago or so). Things went great. Leading up to the date, she mentioned how she needed a BF, needed to get lucky, some implicit sexual stuff but not too crazy. We planned on walking to the bar from her place, but then she wanted to meet at the bar. Everyone went great, and I walked her home. She mentioned being cold on the walk, so I started to rug her back, but she seemed uncomfortable, so I stopped. Got to her apartment, went for the kiss and she gave the cheek. No big deal. Send a couple more texts that night (We'd both been drinking), nothing too crazy, and I proposed getting back together that Saturday night. I was busy all weekend and figured she'd respond if she was available, and she texted me that weekend, but we ignored the date. Early the next week I proposed going out this weekend, she said she'd likely be busy. Same night she sends me a picture of her leg with a red spot on it and "ow." She's laying in bed. No second date scheduled. The next night (kind of stupid I know), I ask if she has any more leg injuries. The text convo is short and kind of forced, so I decide to back off a day or two. This last Thursday I reengaged about potentially getting together on the weekend, but she mentions she has to work Saturday and it's the SB today. I said wished her a great weekend and "don't work too hard." She said "You too! " I decided to pull back through this weekend and want to reengage her Monday. Any thoughts on how this is going or how I should proceed? I know things are not lost, and she's likely just busy, but I also feel we've been texting too much in the past, and that's killing a bit of attraction, even though 80% of it has been flirty and playful. Thoughts? Edited February 1, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
Jessie1231 Posted February 1, 2015 Posted February 1, 2015 She sounds a little confusing, or maybe she's just confused. Or busy. It's so hard to tell and I hate that. If I were you I would maybe try once this week with planning something. Pick a definite date and place. If she says anything other than yes, take it as a no and back off. If you hear from her after that and she does want to see you, go for it. If not, just move on.
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