Legatus Posted February 1, 2015 Posted February 1, 2015 Hello Everybody! Have you ever had a situation where while conversing with somebody online their profile suddenly disappears? I'm not going to go into the details. The conversations, once established are always going well, at least in our minds. The better the conversation the biggest the disappointment.. Have you ever done similar thing? Just to "let them know" you're not interested? I usually respond to everybody but if I or they are not interested the conversation dies naturally anyway.. What do you think is the trigger? Fake profiles? Just having fun? Looking for opinions really and experiences from both sides...
d0nnivain Posted February 1, 2015 Posted February 1, 2015 I would assume they found somebody & intentionally took the profile down.
TigerLilly78 Posted February 1, 2015 Posted February 1, 2015 I once had this one guy obsessed with me on a dating site I made it clear I wasn't interested but he never took the message as a result I temp disabled my profile for a few months but soon as it went live again he was back at it I ended up leaving that site for good this can be a reason people do this other then a situation like this its prob cause they indeed found some one..
PogoStick Posted February 1, 2015 Posted February 1, 2015 All the time, girls put up a profile, are totally disappointed in the men available, or get annoyed at all the stupid messages and dick pics, then decide to close their profile. 2
Author Legatus Posted February 1, 2015 Author Posted February 1, 2015 I am not surprised. I guess types like that do not make it easy for people who actually want to use dating site for what it has been designed for. Probably that's where my mindset is different. If someone says "no thank you" nicely, I can go my way and forget, no problem at all. But leaving abruptly would (in some people) trigger the obsession reaction as to why etc. I am not surprised as last year I did have situation where after weeks of awesome chatting, great first meet-up, a woman suddenly stopped communicating. But I've sent two messages (in the space of two weeks) and that's it. I left it there. Now question is what if some people can't cope with it and become obsessed..
angel.eyes Posted February 1, 2015 Posted February 1, 2015 It would be more productive to focus on finding someone willing to date you. What you're doing here is not getting you anywhere. Obsessing as you are about her behavior certainly isn't going to land you a date...with her or anyone else. She's a total stranger who you'll never meet. So, worrying about why she might have done what she did is a pointless exercise. No one knows why. Speculating about the answer gets you exactly nowhere! So move on to others. It was just a message exchange on a dating site. No need to get distracted by a rabbit hole to futility. Reach out to other women on the site instead. Now that might result in a date. After all, isn't that your end goal?
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