alucardo Posted January 31, 2015 Posted January 31, 2015 Hi everybody i'm new here and I would like to get your advice And i am very sorry about my english. I guess you probably get this question alot but are relationships worth it? I was in a relationship for 2 years until my ex-girlfriend cheated on me. This was 3 months ago. I was really devastated but now i am a lot better and finally moving on. But my question is are relationships worth? I mean 3 months ago i never imagined myself to be where i am today. I tought i would be happy by her side and now thinking about it feels really weird. From one day to another someone who meant the world to you stopped being part of your life and with time they become only memories from the past you don't like to think about. What i'm trying to say is, will the future relationships be worth it? I had a great time with her actually the best time of my life and everything was wonderful and yes love is something awesome, a good feeling knowing that someone cares about you and loves you but only until they betray you. Even knowing what love feels like i don't think the happiness that loves brings is greater than the pain of a betrayel.i am single now and i am happy but sometimes i still miss the feeling of loving and being loved but no relationship will last forever and at one point in life i will have to experience this pain again. I'm 19 and she was the first real girlfriend i had and my first love but i accepted that it is over and that i am better off without her. What do you think is it really worth?
No Limit Posted January 31, 2015 Posted January 31, 2015 Personally, nope but I'm suffering from trust issues as it is. If you meet the right person you'll have a great time, until then you are basically juggling with your heart.
Author alucardo Posted February 1, 2015 Author Posted February 1, 2015 Yes... The right person? Well i don't think someone like that exists. I mean eventually every person you get in a relationship with will let you down and you will have to go through everything again..
mr_dave Posted February 1, 2015 Posted February 1, 2015 Yes... The right person? Well i don't think someone like that exists. I mean eventually every person you get in a relationship with will let you down and you will have to go through everything again.. I know how you feel alucardo, welcome to the forum by the way. It makes me happy when I read about elderly couples who have been together all their adult lives, and still love each other and are happy together. That's all I've wanted from my romantic life, to meet a woman who'll be my best friend. I think now it's much less possible, men and women are 'supposed' to sleep around until their thirties, having affairs/divorces and multiple back to back relationships is glamourised in the media - have a look at all the womens' celebrity gossip magazines. Some women feel they are missing out by not having this drama/excitement in their lives. People aren't satisfied with contentment anymore. Ours is a throwaway society, where people are always looking to upgrade their cars/ phones and girlfriends/boyfriends. You could have an attractive girlfriend with hundreds of male facebook friends, constantly liking her posts and making it clear they fancy her. Before modern technology temptation wasn't within a fingertip's distance like it is now. You're only young though and have already learnt valuable lessons, what to look out for and how to deal with it should it happen again. I hope your next relationship is a better one.
Author alucardo Posted February 1, 2015 Author Posted February 1, 2015 I know how you feel alucardo, welcome to the forum by the way. It makes me happy when I read about elderly couples who have been together all their adult lives, and still love each other and are happy together. That's all I've wanted from my romantic life, to meet a woman who'll be my best friend. I think now it's much less possible, men and women are 'supposed' to sleep around until their thirties, having affairs/divorces and multiple back to back relationships is glamourised in the media - have a look at all the womens' celebrity gossip magazines. Some women feel they are missing out by not having this drama/excitement in their lives. People aren't satisfied with contentment anymore. Ours is a throwaway society, where people are always looking to upgrade their cars/ phones and girlfriends/boyfriends. You could have an attractive girlfriend with hundreds of male facebook friends, constantly liking her posts and making it clear they fancy her. Before modern technology temptation wasn't within a fingertip's distance like it is now. You're only young though and have already learnt valuable lessons, what to look out for and how to deal with it should it happen again. I hope your next relationship is a better one. Exactly! I was lookinh for an answer like that. Nowadays it is pretty much impossible for young people well like me to have a serious relationship. It is exactly as you said. Well i think i can live with not having a serious relationship until i'm 30 . These days people don't value true commitment anymore and that is very sad. Thanks for your answer mr_dave. 2
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