amytct Posted April 1, 2005 Posted April 1, 2005 I'm still hanging in there. I guess the thing I'm having the most difficulty with is that we didn't talk about what was going wrong, so I got no type of resolution. He just became increasingly distant and indifferent toward me and kept blowing off plans with me at the last minute. After the last blow off, I decided that was it and I needed to let go, starting with strict no contact. I know I have to reconcile that I'm never going to know exactly what he was thinking and feeling in the days leading up to this. I know at one time he loved me very much and to have him treat me this way now hurts like hell, but ending things was for the best.
RoxStar Posted April 1, 2005 Posted April 1, 2005 It will get better. NC is the best way. Try not to over analyze things you dont have answers to right now. Even if you had answers it might not make you feel better. A lot of people think that getting answers is the best way to get closure or the best way to understand what went wrong. Usually all it does is make you want to fix it and try and get back into the relationship. Stay positive. I know its hard to be positive with so much just lingering when you dont have the answers you feel you need.
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