meisje Posted March 31, 2005 Posted March 31, 2005 So I am interested in this guy... I hardly know him, we've only spoken a couple times in class, and we greet eachother in the hallways, etc. But I think he is interested, and I would like to get to know him more. So I decided that instead of asking him out (because I don't know if he's single and I don't know HOW interested he actually is) I will give him my number and let him make the next move. I will see him tomorrow in class and then again on Monday. I was planning on just slipping him a piece of paper with my number on it and leaving it at that.... but I don't know if that would seem too random or cheesy or something. Sould I write something on the paper as well as my number? Should I ask if I can give him my number or should I just write it down and pass it to him without saying anything? OPINIONS PLEASE!!!! Thanks.
unsafe Posted April 1, 2005 Posted April 1, 2005 I am definitly not an expert. But I can say if you want something you better take the chance or you may never know. I think you should give him your number. There has been plenty of guys at school who have been just handed me there number and said if you need anything let me know. It keeps it open. If he is interested in you at all. He will call you. If first its just for an assignment, then to talk about class. Then maybe to study. But at least you let him know. I think if someone I don't talk to gave me there number and said if you need anything let me know. I would see it as they want me to call them. Its a bold and brave step. I think you should go to him before or after class. Make sure he doesn't get away to quickly. And just hand him your number. And say Hi my name is.....and I thought if you wanted to could give me a call sometimes for whatever reason. And see how he reacts if he says Oh..I have a girlfriend say oh well call me regarding class if you need notes or are not coming and need the assignment. That way he wont feel to wierd about you the rest of the semester if he isn't interested. But I say you should go for it. You have nothing to lose. You either get a date or you don't and right now you don't have a date with him so you aren't losing. Good luck let me know how it turns out.
Author meisje Posted April 1, 2005 Author Posted April 1, 2005 well, just as a few little details to add on.... He does know who I am, so it wouldn't be like a completely random rendez-vous. And we have exchanged notes before. I missed a week of classes, and he gave me his notes, then I gave him mine for a class just last week. I guess those details only HELP my case, rather than hinder it. I think the hesitation I'm having is just because I think it's totally random to just give him my number and he might think its weird. But on the other hand, he could just be really impressed... I guess all I can do is suck it up, get it over with and see what happens. *** I think my main problem is just not knowing what to say to him when I give him the note with my number on it. "Hey, call me sometime" just sounds waaaay too cheesy for me. The year is almost over, so telling him to call me for notes or assignments, etc. is kind of pointless. So yeah... what should I say? Or should I say anything at all? Maybe just give it to him, smile and walk away proudly.
HoldOn Posted April 1, 2005 Posted April 1, 2005 I think you should just flirt with him like crazy and give him a lot of opportunities to ask YOU out. You can make him think it was all his idea. Guys know that it is their job to ask girls out. And if he was really interested he'd do it. Just give him the chance.
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