goodman223344 Posted January 31, 2015 Posted January 31, 2015 I will make this simple. Loved a woman for at least 12 years. She lied and cheated on me so many times but was always able to manipulate her way out of it. I gave her several warnings to stay away from a guy she has cheated on me with. I seen them together a few times since the warning and i called it quits. ignored her emails that said she just wants to be with me. Then would see her with him. She drinks everyday and is known to be very easy when she is drunk. This has all happened over the last several months almost year. The problem is she lately emailed me saying she loves me, and AND AS WE SPEAK THEM TWO ARE AT A BAR as we speak just a short drive from my house. I would never ever let this lying manipulator back into my life but I AM PISSED.....any advice would be great. Shaking as I am typing this. Sorry
preraph Posted January 31, 2015 Posted January 31, 2015 Man, I'm sorry. She's just out of control. She has no control over herself. Maybe it is the alcohol, but usually the alcohol is dulling some pain from something earlier. Anyway, words are cheap, and she's been absolutely no good with actions, so stick to your no contact. She may love you as much as she's able to love anybody, but she's too out of control. She probably doesn't even love herself.
Satu Posted January 31, 2015 Posted January 31, 2015 You have o go for total no contact. No direct contact, no replies. No contact through third parties. No social media. No 'little birds' feeding you news. If you do that, you will start to feel better. 1
Author goodman223344 Posted January 31, 2015 Author Posted January 31, 2015 Thanks, I am just struggling. I got a lot of attraction to her and IF she was honest I would love to grow old with her. But she is just out of control. I need to keep reminding myself of that. seems childish but its some deep feelings.
Author goodman223344 Posted January 31, 2015 Author Posted January 31, 2015 i just cant accept that she is a serial cheater. so freakin stupid to even have feelings for someone like that.
Kinetica84 Posted January 31, 2015 Posted January 31, 2015 I will make this simple. Loved a woman for at least 12 years. She lied and cheated on me so many times but was always able to manipulate her way out of it. I gave her several warnings to stay away from a guy she has cheated on me with. I seen them together a few times since the warning and i called it quits. ignored her emails that said she just wants to be with me. Then would see her with him. She drinks everyday and is known to be very easy when she is drunk. This has all happened over the last several months almost year. The problem is she lately emailed me saying she loves me, and AND AS WE SPEAK THEM TWO ARE AT A BAR as we speak just a short drive from my house. I would never ever let this lying manipulator back into my life but I AM PISSED.....any advice would be great. Shaking as I am typing this. Sorry I know your pain buddy. I was recently cheated on. I will give you the advice my friend gave me. She said "Take this weekend, scream, cry, shout, chuck away anything she ever bought you or touched, write her an email telling her exactly what you think. Then block all communications so she can't reply then erase the b*tch from your life. DO NOT ALLOW HER TO LIVE RENT FREE IN YOUR MIND" it worked like a charm. Best advice I've ever been given. 3
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