blue16 Posted March 31, 2005 Posted March 31, 2005 So tonight i'm going to the club with some friends, it's my first time going. I'm gonna be having a little vodka (not too much) before hand because I will probably be really nervous. I just want to have a good time, dance with good lookin girls and I'd be more than happy. Any tips for a first timer of what to do, what not to do, etc?
Naive Posted March 31, 2005 Posted March 31, 2005 Well I'll start of by not having that Vodka because instead of helping it can probably kill your game!!!!
bubblygrl5 Posted March 31, 2005 Posted March 31, 2005 Originally posted by blue16 So tonight i'm going to the club with some friends, it's my first time going. I'm gonna be having a little vodka (not too much) before hand because I will probably be really nervous. I just want to have a good time, dance with good lookin girls and I'd be more than happy. Any tips for a first timer of what to do, what not to do, etc? Did you just turn 21? Hmm...tips for a first timer? Don't go grind up against girls that don't want to dance with you!!! I hate that! Bubbly
gridiron Posted April 1, 2005 Posted April 1, 2005 Don't make it an obvious hunting expedition. Enoy the music, enjoy the conversation with your friends, enjoy the drinks (perhaps not too much), smile, always be on the lookout for any smiles or eye contact from any other girls. You'll do fine and have a good time.
Author blue16 Posted April 1, 2005 Author Posted April 1, 2005 cool that was a fun night. i was expecting to be totally nervous and everything (i only had 1 drink before I left for the club) but it wasn't anything too nerve rattling. The first club we went to didn't have many people, the music was really good but the girls wanted to dance to hip hop so we went to another club. It was like 5 girls and 3 guys there, the 2 other guys (one of them is my friend) aren't into dancing at all so it was mostly just me and the girls dancing. A few of them commented how it was great to see a guy go up and dance cuz they said most have to get totally drunk to start dancing. at the other club me and one of the girls kinda hit it off, she is a friend of a friend. We talked for about 20 mins then she grinded me on the dance floor and she said "you're pretty good :)" lol. Thing was that her roommate was there and she was REALLY bored, so this girl i was interested left pretty early cuz her roomate had the car so she left kinda early and unexpectedly :/ Well as she left we kinda smiled at each other...I didn't get the number of course but she's a friend of a friend so hopefully I can find out what the dillio is. That's the thing is should I have asked for her number like while we were having a conversation? I'm pretty confident that she would've said yes to a date, but I was scared to get rejected and it be awkward between us and the group for the rest of the night. I was hoping to spend some more time with her as the night progressed, and ask for her number as we were about to go...but she left pretty early and I didn't get a chance. I always do that...procrastinate about asking for the number because of fear, then something unexpected happens and I miss my chance :/ Anyways thx for all the advice, I honestly wasn't actively looking to pick up girls it just kinda happened. One tip i've learned alrdy for guys is to just go out there and dance. I think when guys aren't scared to go out on the dance floor, whether they are good or not, get a lot of respect amongst everyone there. I enjoyed myself, and hey...I did it without any (well hardly any) alcohol! Originally posted by bubblygrl5 Did you just turn 21? Hmm...tips for a first timer? Don't go grind up against girls that don't want to dance with you!!! I hate that! Bubbly I turned 19 last month. How would I know whether a girl wants to dance with me unless I try to dance with her first? Anyways I only grinded a few girls, and I asked most of them if they wanted to dance, so it was all good.
erika2610 Posted April 1, 2005 Posted April 1, 2005 Cuz if they wanna dance with you, they'll dance there way over close to you
IhavenoFREAKINclue Posted April 1, 2005 Posted April 1, 2005 Girls hate it when you don't know how t dance. make sure that you got your boggie skills up to date! Don't go behind random girls and start humping them. Its a turn off. Clubs are always more fun when your drunk! Have fun and hang lose, don't be to tense.
pseud Posted April 2, 2005 Posted April 2, 2005 Clubbing. Ah. Prepare to be judged solely upon your physical appearance and style of clothing, and perhaps what type of car you drive if you get into conversation. Make sure that you have more than adequate dancing skills. All in all, be prepared to spend a night with rowdy, superficial numb skulls, for the most part. Clubbing; ugh.
Bunni Posted April 2, 2005 Posted April 2, 2005 Tip your bartender! Service is way better that way!!! !! No shi*!
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