Author male483 Posted January 31, 2015 Author Posted January 31, 2015 The arguments are mostly just absolute rubbish that i'd assume every couple goes through, my previous 2 relationships the same arguments where over in seconds and the inevetable make up or make up sex would occur making us stronger. In this relationship once we make up she makes a point of saying 'no sex' then we dont have sex for a week, 2 weeks whatever it takes. She just always seems on edge and i cant for the life of me understand why, its got to a point where i question everything about myself, is it me that really is the problem, am i incapable of making someone happy but then i keep coming back to the fact that all my exs still kind of talk to me and like me, all her exes cannot stand her anymore. I haven't heard from her today and I hate playing games so i have just text her to say: I completly respect your decision to end it and understand why, i honestly hope you find the one youre after some day and for what its worth i loved you and would of done anything but wont stay where not wanted, good luck with everything' left it at that becasue im sat at work doing overtime on a saturday just because i have my own office but now dont have a clue where ill be sleeping tonight. Sick of this situation. 31 and its affecting work and family.
Author male483 Posted January 31, 2015 Author Posted January 31, 2015 And i hate the comments 'you dont know me at all' and things like that, just feels like constant 'im the victim' card. When we got together she gave me the usual 'ive been hurt by every guy ever i need someone who loves me im so ready to be loved'. Gave her everything shes ever wanted and just feel im constantly getting hurt then she calls me mardy or whatever and i sit there thinking 'is it me'. Cant understand a grown woman whod be this way when ive only experienced this at high school. Yesterday for example she'd calmed down and we spoke (again on text) she text saying how she cant forgive the things i said and its practically over, i then sent 3 messages short ones just explaining myself and she replies 'why do you send 3 texts to my 1 lol' which again just feels like a dig when im trying to sort it.
Author male483 Posted January 31, 2015 Author Posted January 31, 2015 and the final part that does me is..... every argument facebook is involved. told her a million times i hate it, its embarrising and chilidsh. yet very next argument and shes attaching pictures to posts saying things like 'give people chances and theyll stop respecting you' just rubbish like that constantly so everyone says 'whats wrong?' her sister whos 19 actually commented on one 'im only 19 why on earth would you post about your life on facebook every time?' thats coming from her 7 year junior sister
Gaeta Posted January 31, 2015 Posted January 31, 2015 One last advice. We are responsible for what we let into our life. You are responsible 100% of letting this woman and her drama in your life. Life is not responsible, she is not responsible, you and only you are responsible for having this life. Good luck
Author male483 Posted January 31, 2015 Author Posted January 31, 2015 i agree with you. my own issues are im awful at letting people go due to a past experience which has scarred me but the truth is i told her from day 1 about all this and shocked that she'd even use that against me One last advice. We are responsible for what we let into our life. You are responsible 100% of letting this woman and her drama in your life. Life is not responsible, she is not responsible, you and only you are responsible for having this life. Good luck
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