Jjnc85 Posted January 30, 2015 Posted January 30, 2015 A girl I have been dating for awhile has recently became distant. A few days ago she texts me for help with her English class, which at first I thought she was trying to use me for a favor. Then when I thought about it some more I found it peculiar, seeing as she has close family and friends that speak fluent English. After mulling it over I told her that I could help her out. I thought of a place we could visit that she has never been to hang out. When she asked where I told her I wanted to keep it a surprise and she seemed excited, I gave her a day and time. Her response was yes and a wink emoticon. Do you think there is anything behind this? With her reaching out and being receptive to hanging out I have become more optimistic, but still treading lightly!!!
WonderWoman911 Posted January 30, 2015 Posted January 30, 2015 Ok, so you mentioned that the two of you have been dating for awhile. I don't think there's anything behind this since you're her man. She's suppose to come to you if she needs help, and vice versa. She may have just seemed excited about hanging out somewhere she has never been. Especially if you never or rarely, surprises her. But I would think about reasons why you think she has become distant towards you. You should communicate this concern with her rather than specifically only thinking about her reaching out to you for her class. 1
rocketman122 Posted January 30, 2015 Posted January 30, 2015 I dont see anything here that needs overthinking. 1
Author Jjnc85 Posted January 30, 2015 Author Posted January 30, 2015 It seems slightly out of the blue, to give it a little more context we are just a dating. She hasn't been reaching out that much at all the past few weeks and has broken some dates. There was a point where we didn't talk close for almost a week. Her distance and seeming lack of enthusiasm is concerning. I am excited that she reached out to me for help and she seems exciting about hanging out this weekend. It has been awhile since we hung out, I just don't know where it came from, but I'm stoked about it!!!
rocketman122 Posted January 30, 2015 Posted January 30, 2015 maybe she had a little action on the side? she tried to juggle both of you till he bored her and now shes back..dont know if thats it or not but you should know. if things were going well and then for no reason she started going silent, seems iffy to me.
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