Kapchill Posted January 30, 2015 Posted January 30, 2015 I've been hitting on a hot girl from my office for sometime now but she keeps flaking on me. When I first met her, she had been in a relationship for more than 4 years and the guy is almost part of her family, but of late things don't seem to be going too well between them. I had given up on her and tried to move on but she never lets me go out of contact. She keeps making excuses to stay in touch. Recently I moved to a different place, she didn't contact me for a couple of weeks after which she pinged me on our office communicator (our usual mode of communication). 2 days later she finds me on Facebook and messages me saying that she needs some help and is not able to reach me as I'm usually offline on the communicator and I hadn't shared my new mobile number with her. I had never added her on Facebook as I didn't want to see any of her pictures/updates with her boyfriend, but now her timeline is kind of sanitized with barely any mention of her boyfriend. She has enough guy friends to seek attention from, don't know what she expects from me as we probably will not be meeting for at least a few months. What should I do?
Mrin Posted January 30, 2015 Posted January 30, 2015 Mmm I dunno. Sounds like you should keep chatting with her. If she's recently out or getting out of a relationship then it might make sense that she's chatting you up. Even if you can't see each other for two month. Never underestimate the "long game" in women. I once had a woman say that she had delayed us meeting up for a month so that we could start dating in April so we could start having sex in late May when she would have had her summer bikini waxing done and the irritation gone away. I crap you not. That's some long game.
Assada Posted January 30, 2015 Posted January 30, 2015 Why is this a problem to you? All you have to do is, keep being friends with her, and go out with other girls 1
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