love1336x Posted January 30, 2015 Posted January 30, 2015 After a break up.... That you and the ex can just be friends again? I miss my friendship with my ex. I am in NOT in love with him anymore, but rather I do miss his friendship so much. It's just... "Get over me already!! and lets be friends again!! before the stupid love feelings got in the way!!!" But, i know it wont ever happened, I've hurt him in a way that will take long time to forgive. I am with a woman, that he fear would take me away from him. In all reality it wasn't her... It was him. He let me go... Le sigh....
Toddbt12y1 Posted January 30, 2015 Posted January 30, 2015 Hurt and pain take a long, long time to get over. He may carry the pain for a very long time. He may never get over it. Only time will tell. Still, All you can do is wait...patiently; perhaps provide him with freedom from contact via you for a while. Doubtful he would be friends...obviously you are with the girl he feared would take you away from him, right? Right.
bigtrouble Posted January 30, 2015 Posted January 30, 2015 After a break up.... That you and the ex can just be friends again? I miss my friendship with my ex. I am in NOT in love with him anymore, but rather I do miss his friendship so much. It's just... "Get over me already!! and lets be friends again!! before the stupid love feelings got in the way!!!" But, i know it wont ever happened, I've hurt him in a way that will take long time to forgive. I am with a woman, that he fear would take me away from him. In all reality it wasn't her... It was him. He let me go... Le sigh.... Depends entirely on the person... I would love to be friend to my Ex... No matter how much she hurt me... (lying, cheating)... But she is so cold and indifferent, she Ignores me... Some can let go easier with NC... Some can let go easier if friends with Ex.. To each his own...
myheartaches Posted January 30, 2015 Posted January 30, 2015 Of course you can't be friends. You hurt him. He needs to move on from you. Don't be selfish and want to initiate another friendship relationship just bc you miss him. Let him mend his heart 1
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