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Is talking with a girls best friend before I ask her out ok?


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I have a bit of a crush on a friend of a friend, I've know her for several years. She's shy and hard to read. I can't seem to figure out if she likes me or not.

 

She's been out of town for several months and recently moved back.

 

My buddy is dating her best friend, and I know the best friend pretty well. The best friend is aware of my crush, I told her about it before my crush left town. (I decided against telling my crush about my feelings at the time because she was moving away)

 

So would calling the best friend and asking about her current situation/feelings towards me be ok?

 

Will everything I tell the best friend instantly get back to my crush? and if so, should I assume that the best friend has already told her about my crush?

 

I've been thinking of calling the best friend and asking about her before I proceed to make a fool of myself.

 

thanks,

BigB

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I don´t see the problem. Your friend shouldn't have a problem with it since your doing it to benefit your relationship with her friend. Go for it! And who knows better than her best friend!

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