CadeYeager Posted January 29, 2015 Posted January 29, 2015 This goes back a few weeks ago to a girl I work with who has a boyfriend that treats her terribly. We connected so well and have expressed that we care for each other. We have (I am not proud to share this but I have to be honest) had sexual interactions. But overtime I found that my actions and attempts to share my thoughts and feelings weren't being returned. I would go out of my way often to meet up with her to talk and hang out. I began to wonder exactly what status you would put on the both of us. Had a talk with her about what she thought about dating me. She told me that if she broke up with her bf and dated me, we could date for a week then breakup. Then she would have nothing left.... I would think that my actions would have given a hint of the type of bf I would be. I guess not. I began to pull away knowing I was wasting my time. I know she likes me, but apparently not enough to leave a bad relationship. I walked away. I soon met a girl who I clicked with much more than my coworker. Plus she's single. Coworker caught up with me and asked how things were going. I told her that I was good and the news that I had a date coming up this weekend arose. She got mad... Like... very mad. The conversation ended shortly after. What gives her the right to be upset about me moving on? I pretty much put myself on a silver platter for her, but she didn't accept the offer. What am I suppose to do now?
preraph Posted January 29, 2015 Posted January 29, 2015 She isn't fair. She wants to fully explore you, the other guy, to decide if you're worth breaking up with her bf for. She wants guarantees, not promises from you that you'll be there for her, but she wants to make sure she likes you more than her bf. And if the answer was yes, she'd already have left him. She's cowardly and one of those people who can't be alone with themselves without someone to lean on for five minutes. You just keep seeing your new woman. Because if you got this one, she'd be doing this same thing to you she'd doing to her bf right now! You'd never be able to trust her. 1
Author CadeYeager Posted January 29, 2015 Author Posted January 29, 2015 She isn't fair. She wants to fully explore you, the other guy, to decide if you're worth breaking up with her bf for. She wants guarantees, not promises from you that you'll be there for her, but she wants to make sure she likes you more than her bf. And if the answer was yes, she'd already have left him. She's cowardly and one of those people who can't be alone with themselves without someone to lean on for five minutes. You just keep seeing your new woman. Because if you got this one, she'd be doing this same thing to you she'd doing to her bf right now! You'd never be able to trust her. You're right. If she did think I was worth it, she would've already left him. They have no financial ties, they aren't married, etc. She could end it and be done with it. I had to walk away simply because of the fact that there's a fine line between determination and desperation with me. It just upsets me to be honest that she could stand there and get an attitude about me seeing another girl. It does't make sense.
preraph Posted January 29, 2015 Posted January 29, 2015 She just may be very selfish or narcissistic and think the world should revolve around her needs. I mean, it's obvious she isn't treating her man right because she's doing all this other getting around. She's all about her. And that's fine, but you can't expect anyone else to sign up for that! 1
ComingInHot Posted January 29, 2015 Posted January 29, 2015 Girl's got to learn she can't ride to horses with one a$$... CiH* 1
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