bathtub-row Posted January 28, 2015 Posted January 28, 2015 Not a new problem, I'm sure. Someone friended me on Facebook a few days ago. Because of my profession, my fb page is basically a business page and I'll friend most people if they don't seem shady. This guy is a friend of an acquaintance of mine. He's nice looking, close to my age and is the CEO of a company. Sounds great, right? The thing is, I'm not interested in him but has been sending me messages on Facebook. The first time I responded, I said hi and said that I'm not real good with chatting with strangers online (LS not included - lol). Then he wrote something else back and I thanked him. I think he has taken my disinterest as code to try harder. I honestly am flattered that he's interested and I don't like to be rude to guys who stick their necks out. I just don't know what to say to him at this point. He sent a message yesterday that I didn't respond to, and then he sent another one today. I was thinking of telling him that I'm seeing someone, but I don't know. Any ideas? I don't want to be mean to him but I do want him to leave me alone.
LoveRefreshed Posted January 28, 2015 Posted January 28, 2015 "I am sorry, you seem like a nice guy with a lot going for you, but I really am not interested." again? "Really, I am flattered, but I am not interested." again? Blocked. 2
Author bathtub-row Posted January 29, 2015 Author Posted January 29, 2015 "I am sorry, you seem like a nice guy with a lot going for you, but I really am not interested." again? "Really, I am flattered, but I am not interested." again? Blocked. Those are great responses! Thank you! 1
ComingInHot Posted January 29, 2015 Posted January 29, 2015 Point blank but with respect then block and go dark. Especially if he's not getting it. Note: I've always found with males, beginning with the 'direct approach ' often works better. You know... for future reference CiH* 2
Author bathtub-row Posted January 29, 2015 Author Posted January 29, 2015 Do you think you would be attracted to him if you knew he was married? "I am sorry, you seem like a nice guy with a lot going for you, but I really am not interested." again? "Really, I am flattered, but I am not interested." again? Blocked. I sent him a text very similar to your first suggestion. I think that will do the trick. 1
Author bathtub-row Posted January 29, 2015 Author Posted January 29, 2015 Note: I've always found with males, beginning with the 'direct approach ' often works better. You know... for future reference CiH* Good point.
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