GH101 Posted January 28, 2015 Posted January 28, 2015 I go to some events from this meetup group. I talk to people there, but I can't seem to find any friends or dates from there. What am I doing wrong? What kinds of things should I be talking to people about?
LoveRefreshed Posted January 28, 2015 Posted January 28, 2015 I am naturally a friend maker. I can talk easily to people. I think it matters less of what you say, but more timing and how you say things. If someone is in for a serious heavy conversation, then get into it with them, but most people, like myself are very guarded and secretive about it and only let it out with real close and long time friends. I think most initial meetings should be light hearted and fun. Read people, find out what makes them smile and laugh. A good amount of wit goes a long ass way on making friends and generally just have a smile and enjoy what you are talking about and most people follow suit.
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