jalopkrit Posted January 28, 2015 Posted January 28, 2015 So I'm in college and last weekend I was invited to this party, I told a friend about it and she invited her two friends, one of which is her roommate. I went and left with her roommate, since she ditched us at the party. Neither me nor her roommate had any drinks, and we left the party with my arm around her. We got back to my place and we hooked up. Only kissed and cuddled for a good half of the night, because she didn't want to have sex. She didnt text me after a few days where we found out we were both in the same class. She kept up the texting with pretty fast follow-up. I invited her over and she came 10 min before she had class, we talked for a bit and I walked with her to class. That night I asked her if she wanted to come over since she lives literally across the hallway from me. She thanked me for inviting, but she felt she didn't feel her best looking. She then talked about the other night saying that she hoped she wasn't being so upfront and gave me the wrong impression, but that I seem like a very cool guy and she hoped we could hang out. I replied that I felt like I wanted to get to know her more also, and she responded with yay. Is she friend zoning me, saying that she's interested but didn't want me to think of her as easy? Wrong impression as in making out an hour after meeting? I did ask her to come over twice in a row though, maybe I ruined my chances?
edelweiss Posted January 28, 2015 Posted January 28, 2015 Nope, I think everything sounds good! Having been in a similar experience (although I did go all the way with this fellow on the first date), I can say that she's just covering her bases. She's not friend zoning you by telling you that isn't "how she is/hope she didn't give you the wrong impression" or whatever, it's her letting you know that she's not just some girl that goes ho-ing around. Because she is interested in you more than that. She doesn't want to be the girl you just use for physical affection. It's her way of saying "this isn't what I'm about." And I don't think you asking her out twice in a row is anything to be concerned about at all either.
Erised Posted January 28, 2015 Posted January 28, 2015 She simply doesn't want you to think she's promiscuous lest you are judging her for those actions.
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