KatieBR65 Posted March 31, 2005 Posted March 31, 2005 [font=arial][/font] I dated this guy a couple times, and during the summer we talked every day on the phone, and then I studied abroad this fall, so we couldn't see each other, but we talked on the phone and he wrote letters and we emailed a lot. We had a really good connection, and could talk about anything, and this fall he said how he was in love with me and had never met anyone like me before. A little while later, he said it was too hard to keep in contact without seeing each other in so long. I came home (to the U.S.) and didn't talk to him, until he called one night out of the blue. I told him how hard it was for me when we quit talking and how it made me feel, and he supposedly felt really bad, and promised we would keep talking. Now, we talk more often, (don't see each other much because he travels with his job) but he will randomly bring up things about marriage. For example, in the middle of a conversation he said "Guess what my wife gets someday from this job? Half my yearly salary after I retire" or "I can't wait to propose, it's going to be so great."(etc.) One time he called me really upset because he had watched a romantic movie and felt like he was going to be alone forever, so I spent time reassuring him that at 23, I think he has time. He has dated a lot of girls, but none of the relationships last longer than a month. He tells me how picky he is and how none of these relationships last. Now we've been close for almost a year. I thought we were just good friends, since things went weird before, but lately every time we talk he randomly brings up marriage, or kids, and lately, sex. I'm confused as to why he "loved" me, then needed a break, but then began talking to me all the time again. Do guys talk about these things with all of their female friends? He's freaking me out!
Bunni Posted April 2, 2005 Posted April 2, 2005 Ask! Do you want to be more than friends? If so talk about it see where his interest lies. Then take half that salary he talked about Sounds like hints, so approach and see.
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