Perpetrator, describe to me your "Affair Fog"

[SycamoreCircle]

LS, so riddled with victims---is there any person out there who might describe to me their affair fog? Use lots of description, please. Help me understand your mental processes. That's what I'm interested in, the E True Hollywood Story of your thought processes.

 

Thanks

[purplesorrow]

LS, so riddled with victims---is there any person out there who might describe to me their affair fog? Use lots of description, please. Help me understand your mental processes. That's what I'm interested in, the E True Hollywood Story of your thought processes.

 

Thanks

 

Great question, I'm curious to see the answers myself. I personally think it is a bunch of bull. Too much fog to see what it was doing to me. I guess it wasn't too foggy for my stbx to see how to get to his side piece's house.

[Got it]

That the term is a bunch of bull. That there is no "affair fog" outside of normal hormones that happen in the beginning of many relationships. That is a way to displace some degree of responsibility by blaming the fog.

[carhill]

OP, imagine the conundrum of deciding whether to do what one wants to do versus one's responsibility and making that decision while under the influence of the most powerful mind-altering drug known to man.

 

If one reads obvious 'drunk-posts' here on LS, one can view the tip of the drug part of the affair iceberg. In comparison, alcohol is pretty mild.

 

In the end though, deciding between want and responsibility is still a choice no matter what the influence. The fog is the personal psychological milieu; everyone is different.

[Jesuischarlie]

It's being in love.... Doesn't always last... Usually creates bonding through sex and that can lead to deeper emotions. However with an affair you quite often never get to try as there is always or usually always something stopping you. Guilt. Guilt brings people off that love cloud. Sometimes indefinitely .