lightningmirrorrock Posted January 27, 2015 Posted January 27, 2015 ok I met a new girl I got her number. Then I found out she is good friends with a girl who thought I was stalking her (which I wasn't she is completely out of her mind she made a huge deal about it I knew she was nuts and I cut off all ties with her deleted her number and blocked her on facebook ) I haven't texted the new girl because I'm worried if I do the other girl start mentioning bad stuff about me when she finds out I'm talking to her friend. Its been a month I still haven't texted the new girl. When I spoke to her it seemed like she was into me. But is it too risky? Funny thing is I ran into the new girl the other day.
Gaeta Posted January 27, 2015 Posted January 27, 2015 She gave you her phone number ONE MONTH AGO and you did not text yet??? C'mon!! What are you waiting for? She probably convinced herself by now that you don't like her and she made a fool out of herself by giving you her number! Who cares what the other girl may say. If she is a nut case then everyone around her know she exaggerates. If this new girl likes you it won't keep her from talking to you.
LoveRefreshed Posted January 27, 2015 Posted January 27, 2015 Probably already screwed. I met a girl one night drinking, she gave me her number at the end of the night when I tried asking her home with me. I was busy chasing another girl and with work. Never texted her. A month later, I finally sent that text, no response. Oddly, ran into her at the bar the very next night. She was standing in a circle when I came up, didn't see her at first, then we made eye contact and she was giving me daggers. I broke the ice with her and was like, oh Jen! You ignored me. Her response: "You made me wait 4 weeks for a text you dickhead". I tried asking her out again the next week, she didn't repsond, and so I goaded her with "You gonna make me wait 4 weeks for a reply?" And she joked, but in the end, that was the last time I talked to her. You have some serious work ahead of you if you want to get this girl interested in you. You blew her off, now she will think you are going for a booty call or something.
Toodaloo Posted January 27, 2015 Posted January 27, 2015 Ring her. Explain why you haven't for a month. I had a stalker and I can tell you that all of his friends knew exactly what was going on and tried to stop him. It was no secret what he was doing. Got really scared at one point though. Thankfully he was taken away on an enforced "holiday" due to some of his other behaviour... Talk to this new girl. If she knows her friend at all she will know what she is like. Be careful going near to someone who is a bit crazy though (even by connection) especially if she has already accused you of stalking... also a month is a really long time...
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