LovelyDaze Posted January 28, 2015 Posted January 28, 2015 I want to get a load off of my chest. I want to tell her how much I did for her and how I always stood by her side. I want to tell her that, no matter how much I love her, I need to move on because I can't be with someone who hurt me so much. I want her to feel my loss. She currently feels (rightly so) that I'm at her disposal. I want her to know I'm gone. If she does come back, I want her to know what I'm worth. I want her to be willing to work harder, as I will be too. I understand. So if you are certain you either want this meeting to tell her you are done or to work harder{which requires a LOT of dedication, rehaul of the relationship, crude honesty of faults on both parties, mass communication, distance to sort it out BEFORE getting back together, etc}, remember she was not wanting to finalize the breakup and may refuse to meet up. You'll have to just go NC and not wait for her say-so.
Author prieto123 Posted January 28, 2015 Author Posted January 28, 2015 i understand. I'm just going to push for it. I honestly don't know if this a good idea. Since the breakup, I have made so many critical mistakes that I'm still paying for. i usually make very smart tactical decisions, but with this I'm an emotional wreck. It just hurts so much knowing she is enjoying her time with friends, and I am here crying everyday about it. I have had a lot to get off my chest, and I want to do it. I'm planning to meet her in person after work. I'm going text her saying "I think it's time to say goodbye. I know you're not ready, but we're not going anywhere".
dumbass2 Posted January 28, 2015 Posted January 28, 2015 so she hasn't agreed to a specific meeting day and time yet? What makes you think she is going to want to get together if you send a text like that? Would you want to meet up with your ex if they sent that to you and you were the one that broke up with them?
universalangel Posted January 28, 2015 Posted January 28, 2015 The sad truth is, shes not worried right now, cause she has the option to be with you. She knows you still love her. The moment you say to yourself, i give up, i trust that if she truly cares, she will come back to me and you go on with your life, she will sense that. We all have a sense when our partners are pulling away. She will feel that and start to feel like shes missing u.. go NC all the way!
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