cruzcampo Posted January 26, 2015 Posted January 26, 2015 Theres much to talk about, so I'll try to keep it short. Im 21, shes 19, we met 7 months ago. We agreed to be exclusive 4 months ago. First sex 3 months ago. She doesnt want to call it a relationship bf-gf until now and it doesnt seem to change. Sooo...shes pretty open minded, and had bad ltr in the past (bf beating her). Our relationship is both great and depressing for me, depends on the day. She tells me she loves me, that shes very involved emotionally, wants to meet everyday, we travel together, hold hands, everything also in public, her friends like me. On the other side, she takes some medication and goes to psychologist. Shes not emotionally stable, and sometimes acts like she wasnt involved in the relationship. Shes able to tell me she doesnt think she loves me, or that she cheated on me...and after a day tell me it was a joke to check my reaction, and shes sorry for that and i deserve better. Everything turned into a joke and nothing happened. Sometimes she doesnt even wanna kiss me, or have sex. Not to be the good guy, she saw my textx with friends from the past saying that shes a bitch. Yeah, that was stupid, but she forgave me. However she says she doesnt trust me at all, and thus doesnt want a bf-gf relationship, agreeing to be exclusive at the same time. I dont trust her either. I miss her everyday, but I just dont want to feel one day happy, the other like crap. I dont know what to do. Does this relation seems to have some future? Should I end it? If so, then how to do that? I dont wanna hurt her feelings. But I just sometimes feel like she treats me like...kind of...a friend, though with benefits, but being exclusive with and saying she loves him...something like that...
Assada Posted January 26, 2015 Posted January 26, 2015 Seems like youre pretty needy, and she should be leaving you.
Author cruzcampo Posted January 26, 2015 Author Posted January 26, 2015 Could you elaborate a bit? How not to be needy then?
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