brasco123 Posted January 26, 2015 Posted January 26, 2015 I went on a date on Saturday night and it was great. I really like this girl. At the end of the date she called an uber and we were just in a random quiet bar/restaurant so I decided to start making out with her until her ride came. So I move in and start kissing her. She doesn't really open her lips!!! She does a couple of times but most of it is just like lip pecking. I was put off and thought maybe she didn't want to kiss me put every time I would pull back and start to open my eyes she would move the distance back in and start kissing me again. I. 28, she's 26. What is this? I'd she trying to be classy? Prude? Or just a bad kisser?
pteromom Posted January 26, 2015 Posted January 26, 2015 Maybe she wanted to kiss you but wasn't ready for actual making out yet? It isn't uncommon for first kisses to be closed-mouth. 2
me85 Posted January 26, 2015 Posted January 26, 2015 A "closed mouth makeout" ?? Never heard of that but above poster is right, it isn't uncommon for first kisses to be closed mouthed/no tongue. It was the first date. Give it more time. She's probably scared that full on kissing will lead to sex and she doesn't want to rush into that. It's pretty classy to keep it innocent until the 2 of you get to know each other better. Most girls want to feel comfortable with a guy before they mess around with them. 2
Ebelskiver Posted January 26, 2015 Posted January 26, 2015 That, or she doesn't want to be the trashy couple making out at the bar. I would be uncomfortable with that myself. A lady in the streets a freak in the sheets and all. 3
preraph Posted January 26, 2015 Posted January 26, 2015 Other reasons you can make sure to prevent: Bad breath or boozey breath and body odor. Probably she just didn't want to go full on in public.
rdet123 Posted January 27, 2015 Posted January 27, 2015 yeah she probably wasn't ready for the whole make out in the bar scenario. I know I wouldn't be after a first date 1
Popooh1276 Posted January 27, 2015 Posted January 27, 2015 Aw she seems like she was quite shy about it! Definitely not a reason to not talk to her again. As others have said I also think she just didn't want to seem so full on and kept it classy!
ScarlettDaisy Posted January 27, 2015 Posted January 27, 2015 She just may not enjoy open mouth kissing. My ex FWB hates it. He's completely grossed out by tongue kissing.
kaylan Posted January 27, 2015 Posted January 27, 2015 Maybe she wanted to kiss you but wasn't ready for actual making out yet? It isn't uncommon for first kisses to be closed-mouth. Since when? Ive never had a closed-mouth first kiss. Maybe no-tongue on a first kiss with a couple girls...but never closed mouth. I closed mouth kiss my relatives and my pets lol 1
guest569 Posted January 27, 2015 Posted January 27, 2015 I agree with others, maybe she doesn't like kissing in public, or wasn't ready for a full on make out..
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