Jk1989 Posted January 26, 2015 Posted January 26, 2015 We'll here it goes, Eex and I haveing a rocky week, Until one night, leadin to a breakup,that I strongly agreed and I blew up in her face... It was over. My exgf was the woman pof my dreams. We loved eachother very much, onece in a lifetime woman. Any ways, Next morning feeling like **** apologizing for the night before, Mentioned hat I was on the verge of proposing, and agreed to one week, no contact , returning with a clean slate fewwwwwf. This is where it went horribly wrong. I had mentioned us saying our good mornings and goodnights. She agree, looking back she was so pissed, she didn't care. And now so am I... Quite mental over this. Later on that evening,diner with my parents, obviously nervousness... I'm thinking , " she should be in bed bynow, so I TEXT HER. Hey, not in bed yet ? Not with any boys are you?, Things took a turn for the worst... She answered"what give you that idea? Knew right then and there she was up to something. We met up, thre were so many indicators at the time telling me not to approach her. Even cops pulling me over about my car and telling me to go home, I continued anyway. Met up, got a confession out of her, out of respect, kind of heated up Anyways, throughout the next couple of weeks, I'm besdied my self, I'm very post traumatic to any event concerning, delayed judgement or any mistakes for that matter. " Omg, what have I done " this girl wasent onlly [" The one ) She was perfect. Sok immediTely after breakpup, I date flirt with chicks, not too much these days., vowed to quit alchohol, did. Amediatly, myself searching tips on clothing, even thinking of how on get her back, I tried and I tush it and ruined it.ive ruined the greatest thing to have ever happened to me. I almost killed, myself.
LovelyDaze Posted January 26, 2015 Posted January 26, 2015 Take no offense. Your post is a little hard to decipher. Had you been drinking when you typed it? Very upset? Or both? From what I could understand I will say that "temporary NC" doesn't work anyway. You are putting a time frame on something you cannot put a time frame on: the problems that caused the relationship to dissolve, what each want out of a loving relationship going forward, self worth, self esteem, any 2nd parties that may be involved, any vices that may be involved, etc. Things take time to sort out and resolve. It requires self reflection without the drama. 2
Chi townD Posted January 27, 2015 Posted January 27, 2015 I was about to ask the same thing, are you sure you quit drinking? Dude, I thought I had the perfect girl too. A log time ago. Until I caught her cheating. Yeah, not so perfect. Dude, no girl is worth ending your life over. That is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. You know what would happen if you killed yourself? She would be sad and remorseful for a couple of months, maybe a year. But, then she'll move on get married, have a couple of kids and living in the suburbs and forget all about you, and you'll be six feet under. That's not how you get your revenge. The best revenge you can get is to lead a damn good life. Full of travel and adventurous. Making positive changes in your life. And if you ever get those feelings of ending it, GET HELP! GO STRAIGHT TO THE HOSPITAL!
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