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Hello Everyone,

 

So... I am 30 and divorced.... and clueless lol. I have dated a few guys since I got divorced (about 3 years ago) and they all made it clear right up front they weren't dating anyone else.

 

Now I have met a new guy about 3 weeks ago and we have been out a few times. He spent the night last week but hasn't even tried to kiss me. He texts me every day but just kind of generic, how was your day, kind of stuff. He lives over an hour away and is always the one driving here to meet me.

 

Is this normal? Do I wait it out a bit? Do I ask? It is kind of annoying not knowing but at the same time I feel like I don't really know how I feel.. In part because I feel like sex is important and we haven't done anything yet...

 

Maybe I should just get a few cats and call it a day.

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My philosophy is that you should just do what comes natural. Don't rush things, don't worry, and more than anything be yourself as much as possible. If you feel like sex... tell him, if he doesn't then wait until he is ready. Communicate your desires.

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