priaz Posted January 26, 2015 Posted January 26, 2015 Theres this cute guy in one of my swimming classes. I think im starting to like him, but I dont know if he likes me or is just being nice. On the day of the midterm, i forgot a pencil, and let me borrow his pen for the midterm. That proves nothing, but its the first thing i noticed with him. Another time, I was studying with my friend before class, and he came up to me and asked about what i was studying. We talked briefly before the instructor walked in. I added him on fb and he accepted. I messaged him once on fb and he replied immediately. I usually wouldnt be reading into this so much, but i think i'm starting to like him, so I want to know if everything he's doing is because hes being nice or if he may be interested. Is he interested or just being nice?
lovexocoach Posted January 26, 2015 Posted January 26, 2015 Talk to him more as opportunities arise. If he's interested he'll ask you out at some point. Possibly right now he doesn't know enough about you - whether you have a boyfriend, for example. So he may be feeling his way and looking for signals from you. Try flirting with him, too. That sends a message that you're interested in him - and he may be waiting for that since he may be thinking the same as you, "is she being nice or is she interested in me?".
brasco123 Posted January 26, 2015 Posted January 26, 2015 He's interested. He wouldn't reply back instantly if he wasnt. Your job now is to give him the opportunity to ask you out. Find out how to talk to him alone or at least set yourself up so he can approach you when you're alone. Also, send him strong signals that you're interested. Flip your hair, what not
Author priaz Posted January 26, 2015 Author Posted January 26, 2015 what if I ask him and his friend to join me and my friend to swim outside of class, on a different day?
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