Chatmonkey Posted January 26, 2015 Posted January 26, 2015 inevitably since we live very close we see each other in the street from time to time. She has just come back to college but during the holidays when she was gone I literally felt as if i was over her and would think about her minimally. Well, she's back at school and i saw her walking with a guy. we locked eyes for a few seconds, and kept walking past each other. That night (last night) i then went to a party and had sex with a friend who I wasn't even attracted to and did not even enjoy the sex because it was meaningless and pointless. Overall, im happy emotionally with how i am handling this, im not destroyed, but the feelings in the pit of my stomach are back and im struggling to rid the image out of my mind of them walking side by side and having sex together etc... i'll get over this. But this is tough. any support would be much appreciated. anything.
Author Chatmonkey Posted January 28, 2015 Author Posted January 28, 2015 been getting better over the past few days. Has been hard to not think of her... I'm moving out of this city soon. Can't wait to be honest. It will be a lot easier to get over her when I am nowhere near her haven't told any friends of my current struggle - really trying to handle this one on my own apart from LS
tikay00 Posted January 28, 2015 Posted January 28, 2015 I feel like when I know they're with someone new, that's when I FINALLY/TRULY accept that it's over, and she's moved on (also my time to lose ANY hope I had). It's a bitter pill to swallow in the beginning, but man, it's so necessary sometimes.
seminoles84 Posted January 28, 2015 Posted January 28, 2015 You're doing good man. You handled yourself well by not showing a reaction when you saw her!
na49 Posted January 28, 2015 Posted January 28, 2015 It's okay to think about her lol. Just try not to let it bother you, and make you spiral out of control. Just be like "okay.. I'm thinking about her.. I miss her (or don't).. aaaand now I'm thinking about something else..." You may think of her again, but you should just do the same thing. There's no need for these mental gymnastics of trying not to think about her. Thinking about her isn't nearly as bad as actually contacting her.
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