upper90 Posted March 30, 2005 Posted March 30, 2005 I am the typical confused guy that needs some inspiring advice. A long story short, I just got back from a cruise I took for Spring Break and on the last night of the cruise I met this girl, her and I had the time of our lives together. We were laughing and teasing each other etc etc. We both live about 2 hours from one another. She is just finishing up college and I have been out for several years. My confusion is this: when we got back her and I talked one night for like 2 hours and we were laughing the entire time, it just seemed like we were hitting it off so well. Then the next night I called her and she didnt have the same excitement in her voice to talk to me, and she was very short on the phone. I had invited her to a festival that is happening this weekend and I have yet to hear from her. I called her last night, but still nothing. I dont want to continue to call, but it is just so confusing. I know she had a lot going on, but what should I do. Should I continue to be pesistant or should I just back off and wait and see if she calls? This is driving me nuts and I feel like a little kid about it. Any advice is welcome!! Justin
tiki Posted March 30, 2005 Posted March 30, 2005 Just back off and see if she contacts you. You don't want to over-do it.
Author upper90 Posted March 30, 2005 Author Posted March 30, 2005 Thats the feeling I get and its almost like a game. I hate that but all I can do is play along. I almost feel like she is testing me to see if I will stay around. I dont know..I just wish I were more knowledgable about these things. Thanks for the reply! Justin
tanbark813 Posted March 30, 2005 Posted March 30, 2005 It sounds like she only wanted some fun on the cruise and never intended it to extend beyond that. People tend to be in different mindsets when on vacation than when they're back in their daily routine.
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