For those who are/have been in affairs, how old were you?

[adna89]

How old were you when you started your affair and how old was your partner?

[Josmatjes]

I was 42, he was 45

[compulsivedancer]

28 and 28.

[ajc24]

I was 34, she was 28. It went on until I was 38 and she was 32.

[nikki76]

I was 37 is was 45

[Sassy Girl]

I was 36. He was 43

[MJJean]

I was 19 when I first got married and 19 when I began having affairs. My partners were various ages between 21 and 30.

 

When I was 24 I met my last affair partner. He was also 24. I divorced my ex, married my last affair partner, and am working on happily ever after.

[GoldieLox]

I was 27, he was 42.

[Missinghim17]

I was 27, he was 28.

[central]

When it started, I was 57, she was 30. It wasn't an affair in the sense of clandestine liaison, as I am in an open relationship and my affair partner and wife know each other and are friends. And, it's still going strong over 3 years later.

[Poppy47]

I was 61 he was 65

[Babs22]

We were both 48. We were both married (me for 19 years, him for 10). It was a first for both of us.

[2.50 a gallon]

I was 35 when I caught my Ex cheating. To me, the moment she broke her vows the marriage was over. I did not need a lawyer, judge, government to tell me I was a free man. I walked away, got on with my life and got back into the dating scene. I would find out a decade later that she had divorced me 4 years later. So many will see those next 4 years as me having multiple affairs.

That being said, in the first year I slept with over a half dozen married woman. I was able to keep all but one at arms length and not get overly involved. Their ages varied from 27 to 32, all but the one, married for 7 plus years.

[Blu72]

I was 38 and he was 34