EveAFlame Posted January 26, 2015 Posted January 26, 2015 She said that girls like mystery/challenge. But she felt none upon leaving. Well I could have presented a challenge, which I am capable of. (I just don't like it when I do that to someone). SHE likes a mystery/challenge. I certainly don't. Many other women don't. If you don't like to do it, then your dating styles are incompatible. Best to move along and find someone who will love your communication style.
EmperorR Posted January 26, 2015 Posted January 26, 2015 never ask why, rarely you will get a honest answer.
Author unagedtiger Posted January 26, 2015 Author Posted January 26, 2015 never ask why, rarely you will get a honest answer. She did literally say she felt no more mystery/challenge upon leaving. I should have been reserved in-person as I have been reserved while texting. I believe her. Now I understand that type of personality.
hoping2heal Posted January 26, 2015 Posted January 26, 2015 "I'm sorry so and so, but you didn't play enough mind games for my liking." You didn't learn your lesson. This girl was going to be a handful if she needed drama and mind games to be happy in a relationship.
Author unagedtiger Posted January 26, 2015 Author Posted January 26, 2015 "I'm sorry so and so, but you didn't play enough mind games for my liking." You didn't learn your lesson. This girl was going to be a handful if she needed drama and mind games to be happy in a relationship. what do you mean I didn't learn? lol. Handful? What do you mean?
thecrucible Posted January 26, 2015 Posted January 26, 2015 what do you mean I didn't learn? lol. Handful? What do you mean? I think what they mean is that it's going to be a losing battle if you have to be always on the back foot trying to be enough of a challenge for her. If you have to mould yourself into a different person to get her to gel with you, then it's not worth it. Most guys will realise that and just move on to the next girl. You haven't learnt if you're responding to this by thinking you did something wrong. You didn't. You guys just aren't a match.
Author unagedtiger Posted January 26, 2015 Author Posted January 26, 2015 I think what they mean is that it's going to be a losing battle if you have to be always on the back foot trying to be enough of a challenge for her. If you have to mould yourself into a different person to get her to gel with you, then it's not worth it. Most guys will realise that and just move on to the next girl. You haven't learnt if you're responding to this by thinking you did something wrong. You didn't. You guys just aren't a match. Worst part of all this is I always like the girls who aren't a match the most out of all I date. Well I might have to change the? Mehhh. Idk.. Gaaah... bitter. She doesn't like me anymore.
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