carolelombard Posted January 25, 2015 Share Posted January 25, 2015 Hello,I just wanna share this with someone other than my friends so here I go-In june 2014,I met this boy on facebook(through common friends) ,we started texting a lot ,we went out and I could tell that he was into me for sure-he was always checking up on me,making compliments,calming me down after the exams and stuff..I liked him too ,but I was really confused back then because at this time there was an actual opportunity for me to get back together with my old boyfriend.And I preffered settling for something more comfortable,stable and sure than to try with this new guy.So I turned him down when he confessed his feelings for me.Since then,we stayed in touch,we continiued to talk from time to time especially since we started studying in the same faculty of the same university But for a few weeks,I sense something going on..If I have to be honest,I'm not exactly happy with my relationship,the problems that caused me break up with my guy in the first time are still here,and even though I know nothing is perfect,I'm just sick of all of it and its like all the magic has gone(one of the main things that is pissing me off is the fact that often he doesn't reply to my messages on facebook for hours,even though he is online-he says he doesn't see them because he is doing work and has too many apps open up,and I believe him,but I think that if he wanted,he would've made the simple effort to check it from time to time..because no matter how much i have to study,i always manage to text him).And I've started to communicate more and more with this guy,as I said,we're in the same uni,we study the same things so we already have so much to talk about everyday,and we do-we text all throughout the day no matter how busy we are.He doesn't act like before-like he's trying to impress me or show he likes me,but still-there are a lot of sexual "jokes" going on,last week he even asked me if I wanted to go out but I already had plans with friends so I cancelled.I sense myself falling hard for him and wanting to be with him,and having fantasies and stuff..And I can't help but think-did I make a mistake,turning him down and going back to my first boyfriend and what is the right decision:I'm scared of finding out he only wants me as a friend even though a friend who you text 24/7 is never just a friend in my opinion,and I also don't know how and if I should break up with my boyfriend.What do you think I should do,thanks in advance Link to post Share on other sites
StrongLass Posted January 25, 2015 Share Posted January 25, 2015 Holy wall of text Batman, break up your thoughts into paragraphs next time! Folks around here always reply to formatted text MUCH sooner & in greater quantity. You're fortunate I'm patient. It's obvious from what you've written that you're over your old love & want to move on to something fresher w/ this new guy, just keep in mind all that glitters is not gold. Basically, follow your heart but don't expect to ride off into the sunset happily ever after with this new guy. Relationships are hard work even with the right people. Link to post Share on other sites
Ebelskiver Posted January 25, 2015 Share Posted January 25, 2015 Getting back with exes is never a good idea. End it with your ex. Now. Then, and only then, should you pursue the other guy. Keep it clean. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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