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Met this girl online and been talking for a week.

Finally met up today and hung out for 2 hours.

We agreed to meet up again in a week.

During the meet, she seemed very interested and talkative.

 

She had a suggestion of where to meet for next date.

 

So I messaged to ask for address.

 

Normally, I would wait for a day but she never used to not reply no later than 15 minutes. Seems something is up.

If she changed her mind like flipping light, I'm out.

 

I'm not doing any of that calling after 24 hours to see what's up.

If she changed her mind, I'm not interested in finding out and just erasing her number.

 

Sound good?

Move on to the next one. Whoo!

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You said that the two of you met up today for a few hours. She seemed very interested based off of your observations so I'm sure she would like to see you again. She probably got caught up or too busy to get back to you to let you know when the next date will be. You're already ready to move on without giving her a chance?

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You said that the two of you met up today for a few hours. She seemed very interested based off of your observations so I'm sure she would like to see you again. She probably got caught up or too busy to get back to you to let you know when the next date will be. You're already ready to move on without giving her a chance?

 

How long should I give her?

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How long should I give her?

 

 

 

 

First you should text or call her to make sure she's okay. You said she normally doesn't take more than 15 minutes to reply back to you and you think something doesn't seem right. So when you talk to her, just mention that you wanted to reach out to her to make sure she's alright. Then you can just ask her did she receive you message about the address for the date. This should open up the conversation to get your answer.

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Give her a chance to get back to you. Give her at least a few hours to get back to you.

 

Otherwise you're going to look desperate to her.

 

You don't know anything about her or her life at this stage of things.

 

Take it slower. You're rushing it too much and jumping to conclusions.

 

When you connect with her keep things light and fun. Good luck.

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Give her a chance to get back to you. Give her at least a few hours to get back to you.

 

Otherwise you're going to look desperate to her.

 

You don't know anything about her or her life at this stage of things.

 

Take it slower. You're rushing it too much and jumping to conclusions.

 

When you connect with her keep things light and fun. Good luck.

 

based on what I acted like during dates, I might already look desperate. Hmm.. Game over..

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we had added each other on fb when we met.

 

Then she just logs on without reading my message, then takes off.

 

I guess it's a no-no.

 

Darn..

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