SharkTooth Posted January 25, 2015 Posted January 25, 2015 Just wanted to drop by and check on the Shack..It was a little over 2 years ago I had my heart broken and then stumbled on to LS. I know how that feeling was when I first got here and knowing or not knowing what was going to happen was the worst part. We never did get back together. I know that's not what anyone wanted to hear but she wanted to a few months ago. I had a couple diners and fun with her, but those crazy incredible feelings I once had for her were gone. She's a friend that wants more but will never have it again. I grew a little, moved on, and became a stronger person. My advice from my personal experience..listen to the old dawgs on here and take their advice. Keep busy and surround yourself with positive fun friends and family. Avoid all drama. There's more to everyone here than just this super awful experience your living thru. There is so much fun waiting for you once the heal is over. Divert your focus and time towards yourself. Yep, exercise! Just do it! And stick to it. 6 months from now, people you haven't seen will freak out how great you look. The cool part about that is you feel great! And yes, there really is a better love out there. It's strange to come back and see different names with the exact same problems. I can honestly say that I feel your pain but at the same time, I guess if I was a doctor, I'd feel pretty good because I'd know everyone of you will be ok. But let the pain take it's course, it's natural and ok to feel the way you do..just know that you will be a better person on the other side.. "a broken heart grows back bigger and better" I wish everyone the absolute best! 15
LovelyDaze Posted January 25, 2015 Posted January 25, 2015 Glad you are doing great Sharktooth! LS has helped me with more than one breakup within the past 5 years of being a member. Ironically,I happened along one very old reply of mine predicting that even a newer relationship I was in may or may not last. Sure enough about a couple of years later, we broke up and I used what I learned on LS to help me through it just fine. Your update will give hope to those who feel they will never feel better again. 2
erklat Posted January 25, 2015 Posted January 25, 2015 Somehow I find your post strangely comforting. Waiting for her to change her decision, I changed. Those sweet feelings of infatuation are gone. I can't see myself speaking to her, and especially loving her again. Your story is what most people actually want. You had the opportunity, but you declined. People want the opportunity, number of reconciliations comes second.
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