Jay13094 Posted January 25, 2015 Posted January 25, 2015 I've been in NC with this guy for 2 weeks and then I broke it yesterday since he texted me. I also was very intoxicated but we were at the same party. He was making small talk with me and what not but I was doing my own thing. Being polite but not trying to make conversation. He ended up driving me back home because he wanted to. Drunk me told him if he didn't have anywhere to crash that he can at my place *face palm*. He said "I was going go stay over but I have to drop my friend off" we ended things because we were exclusive but I caught him texting another girl so I ended things (my other threads give more detail). He liked a ststus I posted and then texted me like if I was feeling better. I didn't respond to him cz I messed up yesterday but i dont know. I'm playing the game rn cz I want him to miss me and want to be with me again cz i still very mich like him. But i dont know I'm going about this the right way. Ignoring might get his attention or make me look like im still hurting. I never ignored or never not picked up the phone when we did talk. So was always there to answer him
Satu Posted January 25, 2015 Posted January 25, 2015 You can either do or not do NC. You can't half do it, or do it some of the time. Make your mind up. 1
Zahara Posted January 25, 2015 Posted January 25, 2015 OP, how many threads are you going to create about this guy? He is bad news. Ignore him because you are moving on. Not because of mind games. No more what ifs. It's done. He's a player. Unless you want to be played again? What aren't you getting? 1
amaysngrace Posted January 25, 2015 Posted January 25, 2015 The only way he can miss you is if you go away. 3
Gloria25 Posted January 25, 2015 Posted January 25, 2015 I don't play games and like game players.... If you decide to ignore him, then hopefully it is cuz you want to move on. If you ignore him with the hopes that it will make him contact you, you are setting yourself up to be hurt and are delaying your ability to move on. It's hard, I know. Just get busy...in time it shall pass. And yeah, the downside of NC is that they might think you're mad at them which means they still have a hold on you - which you might very well be angry with them. But, at the same time NC means you're trying to move on despite your anger. Darned if you will, darned if you don't. But, if you do NC with the serious intention of moving on w/o hopes it pulls him back in, you won't worry and/or care if he thinks you're mad at him. 1
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