Methodical Posted January 25, 2015 Posted January 25, 2015 Being able to articulate and effectively communicate is essential in life.
TG1 Posted January 25, 2015 Posted January 25, 2015 Being able to articulate and effectively communicate is essential in life. Yes and he is not communicating with his girl and that is his problem and it will always be the problem unless he actually does something about it
Methodical Posted January 25, 2015 Posted January 25, 2015 LOL, TG1...we're by far more passionate about ds's relationship than he is. 1
TG1 Posted January 25, 2015 Posted January 25, 2015 LOL, TG1...we're by far more passionate about ds's relationship than he is. I know right and he is making stupid mistakes those stupid mistakes are going to be what costs him everything
Author dsprimal Posted January 25, 2015 Author Posted January 25, 2015 I always cringe when I see people wanting to verbally tell someone their feelings. It feels appropriate for high school and middle school, but once you reach adulthood "telling someone you are falling for them" is awkward. It is entirely too much pressure to lay that on someone and it usually ends up in the person backing off. Instead, let your actions SHOW HER that you are falling for her. This is much less pressure, and giving hints via your actions versus telling someone your feelings will allow them to not bolt in the other direction. Ask her out. Touch her. Get caught gazing into her eyes. Flirt. That's how you show her how you are feeling. Once you are in a relationship, you can use your words to describe how you feel. Before a commitment, it's just awkward. I agree totally. She already knows I like her from how we are in person. I'm going to talk about the potential commitment when I see her.
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